"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls Night Out

nan3109

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Do you guys care if you had a g/f of 1 year who had a girls night out which involved drinking before going to a dance club?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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payaya

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nope what for? if you dont trust your girl you might as not be with her.

but when i have the boys night out, i wouldnt want my girl know what i did, as she wouldnt like it :)
 

nan3109

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i think im just jealous because i dont have anyone to go to a party/club with for a guys night out because my friends are all becoming druggies and i need new friends
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Find new friends. Don't become a jealous AFC just because you aren't hanging out with your old clique. Find a few cooler people to hang with and your concern about your gf will diminish.
 

nan3109

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too hard to make friends in community college, no sports to join until this summer..... all the clubs are for nerds (school ones) and it's too hard to make friends with people in class because you see them maybe 1 or 2 times a week. Also, if you asked a guy to hang out after class or something (for his number) he would think i was a queer or something. What should I do? Their aint NO WAY i can make friends! I'm starting a job as a pizza delivery guy but all the guys there devote 100% of their time to their job or their losers and dont do anything (clubbing, partying, etc.)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Alright, just give up on any social life while you are in college. There is no way what so ever to meet new people even though you are surrounded by people everyday. Also, no matter who you approach they will judge you and question your motives.

People with jobs obviously don't spend their money on anything other than rent and food so what's the point of doing anything else?

Anyone in a club in school is considered a nerd too, stay away from any of the women in the theater, finance or political clubs. There are too many nerds in those clubs that pull the honeys, how could you ever compete with that?

Besides, who wants to join a club that will assist them in finding a successful career after graduation, we've already established that people with jobs only spend their money on rent and food. Why bother.

You're right. There is no way YOU will be able to make any friends. :rolleyes:
 
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