"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls Night Out

nan3109

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Do you guys care if you had a g/f of 1 year who had a girls night out which involved drinking before going to a dance club?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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payaya

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nope what for? if you dont trust your girl you might as not be with her.

but when i have the boys night out, i wouldnt want my girl know what i did, as she wouldnt like it :)
 

nan3109

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i think im just jealous because i dont have anyone to go to a party/club with for a guys night out because my friends are all becoming druggies and i need new friends
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Find new friends. Don't become a jealous AFC just because you aren't hanging out with your old clique. Find a few cooler people to hang with and your concern about your gf will diminish.
 

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too hard to make friends in community college, no sports to join until this summer..... all the clubs are for nerds (school ones) and it's too hard to make friends with people in class because you see them maybe 1 or 2 times a week. Also, if you asked a guy to hang out after class or something (for his number) he would think i was a queer or something. What should I do? Their aint NO WAY i can make friends! I'm starting a job as a pizza delivery guy but all the guys there devote 100% of their time to their job or their losers and dont do anything (clubbing, partying, etc.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Alright, just give up on any social life while you are in college. There is no way what so ever to meet new people even though you are surrounded by people everyday. Also, no matter who you approach they will judge you and question your motives.

People with jobs obviously don't spend their money on anything other than rent and food so what's the point of doing anything else?

Anyone in a club in school is considered a nerd too, stay away from any of the women in the theater, finance or political clubs. There are too many nerds in those clubs that pull the honeys, how could you ever compete with that?

Besides, who wants to join a club that will assist them in finding a successful career after graduation, we've already established that people with jobs only spend their money on rent and food. Why bother.

You're right. There is no way YOU will be able to make any friends. :rolleyes:
 
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