"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Post your evesdropping on girl-talk (myspace, in person, tape recorder, youtube):

"Yeah he is pretty much the sweetest. :) Boys can DEFINITELY take the hint there!! I agree, although there are a certain few (I think you know who I mean) that are okay in my book too ;)"

It's best to get them when they're not looking, when they don't know they're being recorded, in their natural environment of "just between you and me, girl...my boyfriend [blank]" or "that guy [blank]" "He treats me bad" or "He's so sweet" "I don't like him" "He's mean" "He's smart" "Oh, he's so gorgeous" "God, what a dog..." "I can't believe he did that to you?!"

BE a SPY to their thought processes...

http://www.livevideo.com/video/GirlTalk/B2E2ED51820D4ABFA09495F20DC803EB/prom-pressure.aspx
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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people, watch the video on this link, named "trouble with girls"...

I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!
 

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DJVladdy said:
I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!
Dude, I saw that video too. That blew my mind. These girls are pretty intelligent, even though it sounded like "alpha male" was a replacement for "jerk" and vice versa in the context they were using it. They basically told the guy to lower his standards, lol.
 

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Why do these girls on the phone, myspace, whatever address each other as "Hey love,..." Does this mean they're gay or is it just harmless affection for one another? Not that I care, just wondering. I mean, I don't call up my boys and leave a message, "Hey love, blah blah blah..."

Women are sooo touchy-feely. Kinda makes you sick, doesn't it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJVladdy said:
I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!

Why are you amazed? This is 2008 not 1950.
 
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