"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Post your evesdropping on girl-talk (myspace, in person, tape recorder, youtube):

"Yeah he is pretty much the sweetest. :) Boys can DEFINITELY take the hint there!! I agree, although there are a certain few (I think you know who I mean) that are okay in my book too ;)"

It's best to get them when they're not looking, when they don't know they're being recorded, in their natural environment of "just between you and me, girl...my boyfriend [blank]" or "that guy [blank]" "He treats me bad" or "He's so sweet" "I don't like him" "He's mean" "He's smart" "Oh, he's so gorgeous" "God, what a dog..." "I can't believe he did that to you?!"

BE a SPY to their thought processes...

http://www.livevideo.com/video/GirlTalk/B2E2ED51820D4ABFA09495F20DC803EB/prom-pressure.aspx
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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people, watch the video on this link, named "trouble with girls"...

I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!
 

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DJVladdy said:
I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!
Dude, I saw that video too. That blew my mind. These girls are pretty intelligent, even though it sounded like "alpha male" was a replacement for "jerk" and vice versa in the context they were using it. They basically told the guy to lower his standards, lol.
 

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Why do these girls on the phone, myspace, whatever address each other as "Hey love,..." Does this mean they're gay or is it just harmless affection for one another? Not that I care, just wondering. I mean, I don't call up my boys and leave a message, "Hey love, blah blah blah..."

Women are sooo touchy-feely. Kinda makes you sick, doesn't it?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJVladdy said:
I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!

Why are you amazed? This is 2008 not 1950.
 
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