"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Post your evesdropping on girl-talk (myspace, in person, tape recorder, youtube):

"Yeah he is pretty much the sweetest. :) Boys can DEFINITELY take the hint there!! I agree, although there are a certain few (I think you know who I mean) that are okay in my book too ;)"

It's best to get them when they're not looking, when they don't know they're being recorded, in their natural environment of "just between you and me, girl...my boyfriend [blank]" or "that guy [blank]" "He treats me bad" or "He's so sweet" "I don't like him" "He's mean" "He's smart" "Oh, he's so gorgeous" "God, what a dog..." "I can't believe he did that to you?!"

BE a SPY to their thought processes...

http://www.livevideo.com/video/GirlTalk/B2E2ED51820D4ABFA09495F20DC803EB/prom-pressure.aspx
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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people, watch the video on this link, named "trouble with girls"...

I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!
 

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DJVladdy said:
I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!
Dude, I saw that video too. That blew my mind. These girls are pretty intelligent, even though it sounded like "alpha male" was a replacement for "jerk" and vice versa in the context they were using it. They basically told the guy to lower his standards, lol.
 

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Why do these girls on the phone, myspace, whatever address each other as "Hey love,..." Does this mean they're gay or is it just harmless affection for one another? Not that I care, just wondering. I mean, I don't call up my boys and leave a message, "Hey love, blah blah blah..."

Women are sooo touchy-feely. Kinda makes you sick, doesn't it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJVladdy said:
I'm amazed 16 year old girls know about all that alpha-beta male stuff. At that age i didnt eevn have basic social skills (just 4-5 yrs ago). my friends and I were too busy arm wrestling at lunch, dissing each other with yo mama jokes, and perfecting our RPG gaming skills of Asherons Call... WOW kids grow fast these days!

Why are you amazed? This is 2008 not 1950.
 
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