"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girls live to close

cablecow15

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I hate my luck , out of the last five girls ive met , four of them live with in a mile of each other , and 3 within 500 feet from one another , makes me really uneasy trying to juggle them around , think the smartest thing to do is pic one i like the most and deliberately friends-zone the rest ?

the entire reason this dawned on me if last time i was going to the best chick out of these fives house , a girl walked past me as i walked up to her door , and this girl was a friend of one other girl i met at the club "this is the one that doesn't live in this area .

normally id be a lot chiller , but I actually like one of these girls , so im looking for the quickest way to diffuse this situation , without dropping everyone (that seems to be everyone's answer to everything now)

I .... Hate .....small ...... towns
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Holy crap , ive been making typos in my titles all week ....
 

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cablecow15 said:
Holy crap , ive been making typos in my titles all week ....
C0CK TEASE
 
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