"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls Like To Rub Their Breasts Against Me

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I was out a for a short while hanging out with some friends this weekend. Not for a long time. Its the summer and the weather is great and I feel more sociable than ever. My friend is introducing me to people, and I am meeting more women on my own.

One thing I've noticed is that when women talk to me, they have the habit of rubbing their breasts against me. They like to rub their breasts against my hand, against my arms and body. Sometimes they take my hand and rub it on their breasts. This is happening as soon as I meet them. Does this mean that they want to have sex with me? Or are they just being social?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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total_afc

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I am not trolling. This actually happened. What does it mean? Is it just flirtation or is sexual invitation?
 

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this actually happens to me, too, I think. It's always hard to tell if it's accidental, tho. I don't think it really means anything; i try never to make a big deal out of it.
 

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That's strange, are these women just not attractive to you? Also, is it in the context of the girls giving you other IOI's as well or is it just random jostling where the girls are just trying to move past you in a crowded room?

Obsidian said:
this actually happens to me, too, I think. It's always hard to tell if it's accidental, tho. I don't think it really means anything; i try never to make a big deal out of it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lolz...stop making up stories..theres no way a woman wud rub her breast to ur hand...lolz...how can that be an accident..
 

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*Picks up hand*

DJ: What are you doing?
HB: I'm putting your hand on my breasts
DJ: Why?
HB: Because I'm madly attracted to you

Wake-up folks!!!

Two things here: this DOESN'T happen...or...if it does...you must be in a coma not to recognize that this is a signal...

"Is she being social?" What, by making you grope her? How much more obvious can it be? Want her to write "Grab me! **** me!" on her tits?

However...this is about as truthful as a 3 dollar bill
 

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WTF they have tits, what are they suppose to do lift and hold them over your head while you talk or she passes by?

man you have to be 10 years old or something
 

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ok, either that post got edited, or i just didn't read it all. They typically don't grab my hands and rub them against their breasts...lol. My point was i think it's usually just incidental brushing against each other.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wait I have a question. What if I'm at the gas station getting change from the old guy at the 7-11, and his finger tips touch my hand, does that mean he likes me? I mean when he is putting the coins into my hand, his fingers hit my palm slightly. Is it an intentional sign of interest?
 

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total_afc said:
I was out a for a short while hanging out with some friends this weekend. Not for a long time. Its the summer and the weather is great and I feel more sociable than ever. My friend is introducing me to people, and I am meeting more women on my own.

One thing I've noticed is that when women talk to me, they have the habit of rubbing their breasts against me. They like to rub their breasts against my hand, against my arms and body. Sometimes they take my hand and rub it on their breasts. This is happening as soon as I meet them. Does this mean that they want to have sex with me? Or are they just being social?
There's two positions you can play when women do this:

- Be unresponsive to their advances and play hard to get
- Caveman them (no prisoners)

Which one you do really depends on you and what type of person you are. But either way you are in the dominant role.
 
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