"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls Like To Rub Their Breasts Against Me

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I was out a for a short while hanging out with some friends this weekend. Not for a long time. Its the summer and the weather is great and I feel more sociable than ever. My friend is introducing me to people, and I am meeting more women on my own.

One thing I've noticed is that when women talk to me, they have the habit of rubbing their breasts against me. They like to rub their breasts against my hand, against my arms and body. Sometimes they take my hand and rub it on their breasts. This is happening as soon as I meet them. Does this mean that they want to have sex with me? Or are they just being social?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am not trolling. This actually happened. What does it mean? Is it just flirtation or is sexual invitation?
 
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this actually happens to me, too, I think. It's always hard to tell if it's accidental, tho. I don't think it really means anything; i try never to make a big deal out of it.
 
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That's strange, are these women just not attractive to you? Also, is it in the context of the girls giving you other IOI's as well or is it just random jostling where the girls are just trying to move past you in a crowded room?

Obsidian said:
this actually happens to me, too, I think. It's always hard to tell if it's accidental, tho. I don't think it really means anything; i try never to make a big deal out of it.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lolz...stop making up stories..theres no way a woman wud rub her breast to ur hand...lolz...how can that be an accident..
 
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*Picks up hand*

DJ: What are you doing?
HB: I'm putting your hand on my breasts
DJ: Why?
HB: Because I'm madly attracted to you

Wake-up folks!!!

Two things here: this DOESN'T happen...or...if it does...you must be in a coma not to recognize that this is a signal...

"Is she being social?" What, by making you grope her? How much more obvious can it be? Want her to write "Grab me! **** me!" on her tits?

However...this is about as truthful as a 3 dollar bill
 
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WTF they have tits, what are they suppose to do lift and hold them over your head while you talk or she passes by?

man you have to be 10 years old or something
 
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ok, either that post got edited, or i just didn't read it all. They typically don't grab my hands and rub them against their breasts...lol. My point was i think it's usually just incidental brushing against each other.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wait I have a question. What if I'm at the gas station getting change from the old guy at the 7-11, and his finger tips touch my hand, does that mean he likes me? I mean when he is putting the coins into my hand, his fingers hit my palm slightly. Is it an intentional sign of interest?
 
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total_afc said:
I was out a for a short while hanging out with some friends this weekend. Not for a long time. Its the summer and the weather is great and I feel more sociable than ever. My friend is introducing me to people, and I am meeting more women on my own.

One thing I've noticed is that when women talk to me, they have the habit of rubbing their breasts against me. They like to rub their breasts against my hand, against my arms and body. Sometimes they take my hand and rub it on their breasts. This is happening as soon as I meet them. Does this mean that they want to have sex with me? Or are they just being social?
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There's two positions you can play when women do this:

- Be unresponsive to their advances and play hard to get
- Caveman them (no prisoners)

Which one you do really depends on you and what type of person you are. But either way you are in the dominant role.
 
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