"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girls like older guys...

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god this is so fvckin anoying ALL THE HOT GIRLS FEEL THEY HAVE TO HAVE AN OLDER BOYFRIEND. I've seen guys play them really well, hell there naturals its like there doing everything from the DJ Bible but it comes naturally to them its brilliant to watch. BUT they never get the girl its funny to watch why are girls in this country so fvckin obsessed with 'older guys' ??? This wont set me back of course im starting to game all the girls in my class which is fun but nearly all the girls have boyfriends which are older???

Does this mean i have to go for younger girls? They look too easy. I also think getting a younger girl will set my reputation back... what do you guys think?
Is it my school? Or do girls always have to have an older guy? Is it something that they have to do to impress there friends?

hell if i was 20 i wouldn't go out with a 16 year old.

Is it possiable to get these girls? Its like they resist guys there own age because they have to have an older guy!??!?! wtf.. /////

you can see im angry cuz i got rejected by a girl that has a 20 year old boyfriend! god i bet hes retarded lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it must be the area im in then... the hot girls go for older guys in this area and its anoying.

I used to live in an area where this wasnt the case.
 

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All the girls I know only go forolder guys. To them tehy are more of a challenge I think. Plus the are bigger and have better cars.

Not to say a younger guy couldnt get the girl if he played her right.
 

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why (i think) this is the case for some....

older guys can...
- buy drinks
- drive them places
- buy other things easier as they likely have a better job
- likely doesn't live with parents
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I concur:

can buy booze

has his own place

(In most cases) has some sexual knowledge under his belt and some prowess.

All these are quite alluring to the younger crowd.


Karma
 

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It's whoever acts more like a man who she is attracted to....

Age gives a boost though.
 

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I think it's basicly that (teenage) girls like older guys cause most of the boys of their age don't know how to treat them.
I'm 18 and I get lot of attention from some 15 16 y.o. But I don't go for that, it just doesn't feel right. I think, with the right skills you can get girls any age. (well maybe I won't get a 30 y.o. ;) , but you get my point).

I see where you're coming from. Sometimes I see the ex of my homie with these 20+ guys to impress him so she will want him back and ****, and they're like 16 and we joke around like: "WTF is this guy's problem, hangin out with little girls like that :crackup: "
 

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Girls find stability and maturity attractive. That's why they like older guys.

I'm 17, and the last girls I was talking to were 20 and 19, before that, 16 and 16.

Who cares what "type" girls go for? Either they like what they see about you or they don't. A "type" or "age" thing is an excuse.

That is bull**** and that is unacceptable. Quit making excuses.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Soprano
why (i think) this is the case for some....

older guys can...
- buy drinks
- drive them places
- buy other things easier as they likely have a better job
- likely doesn't live with parents
I agree with what Soprano says....Also i belive you should disquallify those girls, Unless there boyfriend dumps them and you can go in for the kill, There are many more girls than just a classroom, Explore and Discover what is out there.. When i was 16 my Girl Friend was about a hb 9 really tall thin blonde... She was older than me, Somehow we connected, The Right Pepole And The Right Places Will Find What You Seek.
 

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Originally posted by mizter6
anything wrong with a senior guy going for a freshman girl?? cuz thats been on my mind all week
so many disadvantages going for a freshman besides shes really cute and has a hot body..
hahahaha. I'm laughing because i know exactly how you feel and it's funny. I vote freshmen. Enjoy the good times :cool: .
 

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Older guys don't seem like kids. They have more experience in life period.

Don't let this get you down though. You just have to be the better guy. You don't need money or cars. You just have to be that guy that when she hangs out with other guys, she has you on her mind and they seem unfullfilling to her.

Don't let it get you down.
 

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girls wanna feel older. its a known fact. thats why companies market to teens by using a grown up image.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok then on to my next question...

i fancy this lass

blonde, tall HB9

shes 13/14

im 15.. 16 in 5 months

I think she will be really easy cuz im older lol n she looks fit. But i dont feel its right for me to go for her? I haven't yet.. but iv'e been thinking of it.

Im in the oldest year at school, shes 2 years down. Girls in my year arent too great + have older bfs. Girls in lower year (some are ok) but its this one in the second year down that catches my eye.
 

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Originally posted by shadowfox
ok then on to my next question...

i fancy this lass

blonde, tall HB9

shes 13/14

im 15.. 16 in 5 months

I think she will be really easy cuz im older lol n she looks fit. But i dont feel its right for me to go for her? I haven't yet.. but iv'e been thinking of it.

Im in the oldest year at school, shes 2 years down. Girls in my year arent too great + have older bfs. Girls in lower year (some are ok) but its this one in the second year down that catches my eye.
MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY AND GO FOR IT
 
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