Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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god this is so fvckin anoying ALL THE HOT GIRLS FEEL THEY HAVE TO HAVE AN OLDER BOYFRIEND. I've seen guys play them really well, hell there naturals its like there doing everything from the DJ Bible but it comes naturally to them its brilliant to watch. BUT they never get the girl its funny to watch why are girls in this country so fvckin obsessed with 'older guys' ??? This wont set me back of course im starting to game all the girls in my class which is fun but nearly all the girls have boyfriends which are older???

Does this mean i have to go for younger girls? They look too easy. I also think getting a younger girl will set my reputation back... what do you guys think?
Is it my school? Or do girls always have to have an older guy? Is it something that they have to do to impress there friends?

hell if i was 20 i wouldn't go out with a 16 year old.

Is it possiable to get these girls? Its like they resist guys there own age because they have to have an older guy!??!?! wtf.. /////

you can see im angry cuz i got rejected by a girl that has a 20 year old boyfriend! god i bet hes retarded lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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it must be the area im in then... the hot girls go for older guys in this area and its anoying.

I used to live in an area where this wasnt the case.
 

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All the girls I know only go forolder guys. To them tehy are more of a challenge I think. Plus the are bigger and have better cars.

Not to say a younger guy couldnt get the girl if he played her right.
 

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why (i think) this is the case for some....

older guys can...
- buy drinks
- drive them places
- buy other things easier as they likely have a better job
- likely doesn't live with parents
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I concur:

can buy booze

has his own place

(In most cases) has some sexual knowledge under his belt and some prowess.

All these are quite alluring to the younger crowd.


Karma
 

DJ4Real

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It's whoever acts more like a man who she is attracted to....

Age gives a boost though.
 

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I think it's basicly that (teenage) girls like older guys cause most of the boys of their age don't know how to treat them.
I'm 18 and I get lot of attention from some 15 16 y.o. But I don't go for that, it just doesn't feel right. I think, with the right skills you can get girls any age. (well maybe I won't get a 30 y.o. ;) , but you get my point).

I see where you're coming from. Sometimes I see the ex of my homie with these 20+ guys to impress him so she will want him back and ****, and they're like 16 and we joke around like: "WTF is this guy's problem, hangin out with little girls like that :crackup: "
 

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Girls find stability and maturity attractive. That's why they like older guys.

I'm 17, and the last girls I was talking to were 20 and 19, before that, 16 and 16.

Who cares what "type" girls go for? Either they like what they see about you or they don't. A "type" or "age" thing is an excuse.

That is bull**** and that is unacceptable. Quit making excuses.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HollowHorizon

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Originally posted by Soprano
why (i think) this is the case for some....

older guys can...
- buy drinks
- drive them places
- buy other things easier as they likely have a better job
- likely doesn't live with parents
I agree with what Soprano says....Also i belive you should disquallify those girls, Unless there boyfriend dumps them and you can go in for the kill, There are many more girls than just a classroom, Explore and Discover what is out there.. When i was 16 my Girl Friend was about a hb 9 really tall thin blonde... She was older than me, Somehow we connected, The Right Pepole And The Right Places Will Find What You Seek.
 

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Originally posted by mizter6
anything wrong with a senior guy going for a freshman girl?? cuz thats been on my mind all week
so many disadvantages going for a freshman besides shes really cute and has a hot body..
hahahaha. I'm laughing because i know exactly how you feel and it's funny. I vote freshmen. Enjoy the good times :cool: .
 

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Older guys don't seem like kids. They have more experience in life period.

Don't let this get you down though. You just have to be the better guy. You don't need money or cars. You just have to be that guy that when she hangs out with other guys, she has you on her mind and they seem unfullfilling to her.

Don't let it get you down.
 

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girls wanna feel older. its a known fact. thats why companies market to teens by using a grown up image.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ok then on to my next question...

i fancy this lass

blonde, tall HB9

shes 13/14

im 15.. 16 in 5 months

I think she will be really easy cuz im older lol n she looks fit. But i dont feel its right for me to go for her? I haven't yet.. but iv'e been thinking of it.

Im in the oldest year at school, shes 2 years down. Girls in my year arent too great + have older bfs. Girls in lower year (some are ok) but its this one in the second year down that catches my eye.
 

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Originally posted by shadowfox
ok then on to my next question...

i fancy this lass

blonde, tall HB9

shes 13/14

im 15.. 16 in 5 months

I think she will be really easy cuz im older lol n she looks fit. But i dont feel its right for me to go for her? I haven't yet.. but iv'e been thinking of it.

Im in the oldest year at school, shes 2 years down. Girls in my year arent too great + have older bfs. Girls in lower year (some are ok) but its this one in the second year down that catches my eye.
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