Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls Like it When You Ask Them...

Alkali

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How old they are. Yes, it's that simple. I’ll elaborate.

Today, my friends (some girls, some guys) went to a water park.

So my buddy and I split with the group and head towards the slides.

While in line a few girls get in line (while we’re waiting further up)

I said, “Dude, that girl in the green is hot!” (HB 9 with a few HB 7-8s)

He said she was too young. We debated.

-The girl had pretty large breasts, that was my strongest point.

-She had a very innocent face (attrative too.) This was his main point.

So the girls notice us looking and are interested but due to the situation (uncertainty)

--I wouldn't approach.

So we go down the slide, grab a friend (male) and ask his opinion.

He’s with me. So we’re all hyped and we make a bet.

If she’s 15 or older we win the pool. If she’s 14 or younger he wins.

First, we grab his girlfriend and she says she’s atleast 16, probably 17 or 18.

I tell him (in private) that it’s because of his mental block (he has a girlfriend)

That he subconsciencly (psychologically) convinced himself that she was too young.

I asked how she was--she said, “Let me think about it...I’m 17. How old are you?”

Seventeen was good enough for me (I’m seventeen.)

I got her number.

I have a hot date coming up.

I have thirty bucks to pay for it (am I cheap?)

Tell a girl you were confused.

That you thought that she might be younger than she was

(by saying she had innocent facial features)

. . .and you're golden.

Strange approach, but it was fun and flattering. Worked for me, so you might as well try it. :woo:
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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interesting idea, i guess. not sure if i'll use it, tho ;)


I have thirty bucks to pay for it (am I cheap?)
you're pushing it, man. Don't feel like you have to spend a bunch of money on someone to make them like you.
 

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flattery at it's best, but i'm surprised it worked on such a young girl.
 

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30 dollars enough? FOR A FIRST DATE?

Ive never spent money on a girl. NEVER. They spend money on me!

I usually just kick it with em in my bedroom on my 4,000 dollar bed and fourplay with em on first dates....oh and if ur wondering i only date girls older than 18. (im 19)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alkali

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You're my hero Dondan. I like going to the movies for first dates. It can be expensive.

Factor in:

Tickets (8$)

Gas (5$)

Snacks (7$)

We're looking at around thirty dollars for the both of us.

Besides, it's not like I worked for this money. I just won a bet :crazy: .

Sometimes I let the girl pull some weight, but not HB 9s lol.
 

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Sometimes I let the girl pull some weight, but not HB 9s
bad mindset. Granted, you're the one who invited her out so it's not inconceivable to pay for her, but you should try to keep things cheap if you're gonna be paying. (eg: coffee, ice cream, or a cheap restaurant)

And movies for first dates aren't real great, imo.
 

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I love movies for first date.

Girls like me. My job is to not screw it up. A silent date is an easy date.

Not only that, they get bored. When they become bored they want excitement.

Icing. On. The. Cake.

I hear you, respect your opinion, but lets agree to disagree.
 

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Movie for a first date? Shouldnt it be something else, where u guys just arent sitting side by side not talking and watching a movie when u first meet? like 1 on 1 ... in ur room... or wateva
 

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Right, I mean date though. Like going out. My room (or her room...a* room) comes first, but it's no date.

In fact, I wouldn't call a starbucks meeting a date either. I'm just wierd like that though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It wasn't that it was flattering that she looked younger - girls at that age generally want to appear older. Your success so far was probably because you were qualifying her. Your frame was that she might not be old enough for you, so you showed your have options and criteria.

Similarly, when I was getting to know my gf I wasn't sure if she was too young. I am 38, and she looked about 22 to me. A 22 year old hottie might still be an immature party girl/drama queen, so I was wary. Turned out she was 28 (asians age well!), and when I told her about my concerns it demonstrated the same qualifying attitude, and she found that very sexy.
 
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