I went out with this girl last week.. counted as our first date or whatever so i took her to this night club cause I had the urge to go club. We get the club and we are drinking outside and she suddenly recognizes this guy..hes her ex from 2 months ago... so he comes up and tries to talk to her but shes kinda brushing him off.. anyways he ended up following us around the whole ****ing night basically...so later on I take her home we do our thing and she leaves..so Im chatting with her the next week and shes telling me how psycho her exs are.. at first I was like wow thats messed.. then I began to wonder maybe she enjoys all this **** and the drama associated with it.. she did tell me that one of them hated me and said I was a player and wanted to fight ( come one dude why would u fight over her? what an AFC you guys already broke up) etc..she didnt need to tell me that.. so according to my past experience with another AW it just seems she might get some thrill out of egging them on and maybe being so desired.... we had plans to go out again this weekend but I just cancelled.. I think Im doing the right thing..i dont want her to memorize where my house is.. haha what would u guys do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girls know what they are doing 100% of the time right?
- Thread starter LaoDa
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah some chicks do love drama and they want to drag you into a competition (and possibly a fight) with other guys - it boosts their ego. Don't get into a fight like that, no chick is worth it. Always pay attention to red flags early on, before you get sucked in too deep with a chick.
As for taking a chick to a club for a date, it's asking for trouble and other guys to hit on her. The club is where you go to pick up chicks, not take one you already picked up. It's a hothouse of drunk horny guys looking to hit on chicks - including yours.
As for taking a chick to a club for a date, it's asking for trouble and other guys to hit on her. The club is where you go to pick up chicks, not take one you already picked up. It's a hothouse of drunk horny guys looking to hit on chicks - including yours.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we make it all up as we go
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
This woman deserves a prize...penkitten said:
Jester FPS
Don Juan
you did the right thing, good job
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