"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls just want to have fun..

cola

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So this weekend me and this chick hung out. She wasn't a plate or anything just a cool female friend. We were suppose to go out as a group but everyone flaked but me and her.
So we have this strip of bars/clubs downtown. Its literaly like 12 within a 2 block radius.

So, on my best days my personality is really life of the party with minimal effort. It just comes natural, I'm not shy at all. I'll walk up to dudes, show love, chicks whoever just having fun.
So I'm in the club with her and the EDM is pumping and we are having a ball.. jumping around going nuts, buying shots..
Im taking selfies with random chicks just having a ball.

It wasn't a conscious effort but I think back and we would stay in a spot like 20 minutes tops and hit a new spot. These places have no cover. Its really a gold mine, one of the best things in my city, besides Ravens football. Point being I'm LEADING her. I am the fun.

So long story short after this fun night which put me in mind of the Calvin Harris "found love in a hopeless place" video.. we cab it back to my house where she parked her car..
She says she is too wasted to drive, takes me in my home and ****s my brains out. I mean nasty, drunk, anything goes pornstar sex.

Anyway, it just reminded me and i wanted to share...
go out, have FUN, be social and chicks will bang you. This chick was never on my radar or did I think we would hook up.
But she had so much fun, saw me turn up and saw hot chicks taking selfies with me..
i feel like she had attraction overload and had no choice but to bang me.

Just thought id share.. peace bros
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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good good

as long as you maintain an air of mystery with a woman absolutely anything is possible

problem is the second she knows you want to f1uck her , you can forget about it
 

Nu Vision

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Bingo-Player said:
good good

as long as you maintain an air of mystery with a woman absolutely anything is possible

problem is the second she knows you want to f1uck her , you can forget about it
Bingo-Player,

I'm having some issues with this. I think I've been following the advice to be upfront and let a girl know you are interested to the extreme. So you are saying one shouldn't show sexual desire or that you want to bed her? I've read many articles saying girls get bored when guys are vague and don't get to the point.

Sorry for the threadjack OP. And thanks for sharing.
 
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