“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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apotheosis

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you don't control WHO is attracted to you and gives you IOI's (she might be hot. She might not.)
ANd yes, of course no amount of 'game' is going to turn a girl from 'Ewww....I hope he doens't talk to me'' to ''Please take me home and bang me!''. lol
 

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If your issue is with the quality and looks of the women you are attracting (not pretty), then it is not your game or the numbers that have to be further developed. It is your own level of attraction.
I think everyone agrees with that lol. That's why handsome guys kill it I guess!
 

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I would rank potential approach targets the following way:

1. Showing IOIs. (Best Option)

2. Not seeing any IOIs but still have a good gut feeling about her. (Second Best Option, but still is a gamble)

3. Not showing IOIs and you have a neutral feeling about her. (Long shot gamble)

4. You see obvious IODs. Might also have a negative feeling about her. (Forget it. It’s all over for coldapproachcels lol.)
 
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It's always a numbers game. Even the pro PUA's' get rejected lots.
The 'skill' element of it will simply increase the odds of you banging the girls who are already into you.
You can't force attraction in a girl no matter how many game techniques you apply (disqualify her, neg her, tease her, dhv story about your model ex girlfriend etc).
If you open a girl from cold approach who isn't remotely physically attracted to you, nothing you say will trick her into wanting to bang you. No amount of confidence etc will cut any ice. She might think you're fun and cool etc, but she won't want to bang you.
So what you're saying is that if a man is ugly, it's over.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Happens sometimes. I think it's usually a mixture of her not being into your looks plus her just not being a very sociable person. Lots of girls apparently have quite bad social anxiety nowadays as they just live on their phone reading their DM's from Instagram male models etc lol. So can get weirded out when a guy who they're not instantly attracted too starts talking to them. Depends on location maybe, too. I get WAY more insta rejections in the UK than in the US
Would you get rejected by something like this? :eek:
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Whats wrong with the girls who doesn't even let me finish saying my opener and walks away?
Nothing at all. If a dude doesn't want to be with a lady, he has the power to walk away too. Never get angry at a lady. You can expect one thing from a lady.. That one thing is a lady to be a lady. And a lady is ruled by her emotions and will act upon them without a moments notice.

I know a dude who was dating this lady for a few months. He stated she said to him that she's finally found her soulmate. She told him she wanted to date others a few weeks later.. He was crushed.. I just said, that's what lady's do nowadays. Dudes just need to toughen up a bit more and know how to take it and move on. Forget what they say and go back their actions and what they do.
 

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Biggest change for opening came from learning to be loud and to speak in a breaking rapport tonality. Imagine the words leaving your mouth are moving out in a straight line before taking a downward trajectory--or like you're on top of a platform talking down to them. Eye contact is next. You should be making strong, relaxed eye contact and holding it longer than you feel comfortable with. Those two things, from a technical standpoint, are all you really need.

Also, what's your opener?
 

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Whats wrong with the girls who doesn't even let me finish saying my opener and walks away?
Female entitlement. Likely, you're lower in SMV than she likes or has assessed.

Take it on the chin. #nextSet

The funny thing is that, women are cheered off the cliff by gorl power, feminism, and their own vices + poor choices.

Playboy, there's no better feels than running into train wrecks from the past. Fat as ****kkk, cratered SMV, post wall, single mother victimhood and multi kids from diff men. No better feeler than running onto a train wreck and you pulled top form SMV 18-23.




Enjoy the decline fellas

Lulz be had.


Life trolls women harder than you ever could.
 

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Whats wrong with the girls who doesn't even let me finish saying my opener and walks away?
Some people are just unlikeable azzholes. You dodged a bullet not having to deal with them.

Edit: this is assuming there's nothing egregiously wrong with your opener, appearance, behavior or screening.

IF you look like a homeless man, opened with "hey b*tch, want some d*ck?", nonchalantly scratched your balls while she was looking at you OR approached a lesbian whose girlfriend was looking at you the whole time... I can see how it wouldn't work out without being the girls' fault lol.
 
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