"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey guys, this works for me...

When in a club, pretty soon after meeting a girl, say this:

"I'm not on the pull tonight, I just want a night out with my buddies."

I am in the UK so if some of this doesn't make sense or is slang then let me know. I will translate!

Sometimes I tack on, "I am not into all that chatting up girls rubbish." Then Game her.

The reason it works is it straight away tells her that you are not there to chat her up or meet girls. i.e. she has no power over you, you are not there to chat her up, her guard goes down, she can talk to you as though you are free of ulterior motive. Then, as things progress, you nail her!

Try it! I did this recently on a girl and she had her arm around me with 15 mins. :)

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I did invent that method. If someone else used it or invented it, it does not mean I did not invent it. And if Mystery uses something similar, good for him. He has found out it works too, just as I have.

It's a different take on it. Different words. My words may work better than his for some people.
 
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Mystery does NOT have a monopoly on ideas. You are stuck in the "I worship the guru" rut. Get out of it and see the world as it is.
 
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I don't think anybody feels their intelligence is being insulted by a discovery I made for myself. Rather, I think people appreciate contributions of what has worked for them in the real world.

I welcome variations of phraseology on what I use. It really does work and it shows there is value in using a canned, set approach.

Quite often, I am fearful of approaching someone because I worry about not having anything to say to them when I get there. With something prepared, I feel it would help overcome this obstacle.

Also, I think my game is not solid enough. I learned this from Mystery. I tend to want to skip steps and go straight for the snog. But if I go through a more patient process, maybe the attraction would be more enduring. Mystery seems to think so and he probably has more experience than all of us!

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I need to develop more stuff like this. When I came across that phraseology, it seemed to work great. So I tried it again. And it worked again. I could sense that it had good effect.

However, I need a whole toolbox of stuff, not just the occasional line here and there. I will get some of this stuff memorised.

I'm reading The Game at the moment and I'm getting some good pointers in there. I also like the fact that Style doesn't look like a stud, so personality counts sufficiently.

By the way, how old is Style?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks for the links bud.

I am in Brighton, bit of a party town here. Loads of students but I find it much more tricky to pull below 25's. Anyone my own age (40) is easy, but I generally don't fancy them. Good age range for me is about 24 to 32. They are still in good condition then.

If only I was 20 again and with this knowledge. I envy you!

It is funny but only since I came to Brighton (3 years ago) have I started going out on the pull. Met a guy aged 27 who is full of energy and devoid of fear. He approaches girls left, right and centre. Also another buddy of mine does the same but he has now met his soul mate. Another friend of mine does none of this and our nights out are very tame indeed.

So, by improving my Game I hope to attract better and therefore to attract a younger girl that I would normally struggle with.

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