Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Like the other guys said, just enjoy the ride and don't take it too seriously (except when it comes to protection).
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Girls is trying to hide me...wtf???
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You are getting all the good parts and none of the responsibility. This is a great result for you, so unless you have oneitis I don't see what the problem is. She is keeping her options open and so should you.
I never include girls I'm gaming in my everyday life. Only when it becomes serious, I'll involve her in some parts of my life, but still keep the two aspects seperated.
Why do you want to label what you have with her? Do you plan on marrying her? No. Just have fun for as long as it lasts..
I never include girls I'm gaming in my everyday life. Only when it becomes serious, I'll involve her in some parts of my life, but still keep the two aspects seperated.
Why do you want to label what you have with her? Do you plan on marrying her? No. Just have fun for as long as it lasts..
squirrels
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OMFGMYSPACE!!!
1) Don't worry about what a girl does on her MySpace page.
2) Stop whining about not getting enough validation. Be a man.
3) If she's "not dating anyone" in her book, it means she's probably doing with other guys what she's doing with you. If it bothers you that much, then find a new girl. Or you can wait and see if she commits....and wait....and wait....
1) Don't worry about what a girl does on her MySpace page.
2) Stop whining about not getting enough validation. Be a man.
3) If she's "not dating anyone" in her book, it means she's probably doing with other guys what she's doing with you. If it bothers you that much, then find a new girl. Or you can wait and see if she commits....and wait....and wait....
Bro ive been there before, you're her fwb.
girls like this dont want a relationship (not currently anyway, and maybe not with you). But if someone who she deems is a better catch comes along, she will kick you to the curb...for all you know it could be her ex.
Right now she's young and is testing the waters, so enjoy it while it lasts.
It's all good as long as you're using each other and you arent looking for a relationship with her.
But generally girls that do try to hide a guy, are publicly announcing they're not taken which leaves opening for other prospects...and at the same time avoiding the appearance of looking like a slvt
girls like this dont want a relationship (not currently anyway, and maybe not with you). But if someone who she deems is a better catch comes along, she will kick you to the curb...for all you know it could be her ex.
Right now she's young and is testing the waters, so enjoy it while it lasts.
It's all good as long as you're using each other and you arent looking for a relationship with her.
But generally girls that do try to hide a guy, are publicly announcing they're not taken which leaves opening for other prospects...and at the same time avoiding the appearance of looking like a slvt
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
There's no problem here dude.
One of my very good girl mates doesn't put guys she dates on her myspace, infact, I rarely ever hear of these guys. She still sleeps with them. Whats the problem? You're getting what you want.
One of my very good girl mates doesn't put guys she dates on her myspace, infact, I rarely ever hear of these guys. She still sleeps with them. Whats the problem? You're getting what you want.