"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls is trying to hide me...wtf???

Bonhomme

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Like the other guys said, just enjoy the ride and don't take it too seriously (except when it comes to protection).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you know how bad it makes BOTH of you look? your age difference is too big.
stop being such a pedo
 

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You are getting all the good parts and none of the responsibility. This is a great result for you, so unless you have oneitis I don't see what the problem is. She is keeping her options open and so should you.

I never include girls I'm gaming in my everyday life. Only when it becomes serious, I'll involve her in some parts of my life, but still keep the two aspects seperated.

Why do you want to label what you have with her? Do you plan on marrying her? No. Just have fun for as long as it lasts..
 

squirrels

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OMFGMYSPACE!!!

1) Don't worry about what a girl does on her MySpace page.

2) Stop whining about not getting enough validation. Be a man.

3) If she's "not dating anyone" in her book, it means she's probably doing with other guys what she's doing with you. If it bothers you that much, then find a new girl. Or you can wait and see if she commits....and wait....and wait....
 

ScrewIt

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Bro ive been there before, you're her fwb.

girls like this dont want a relationship (not currently anyway, and maybe not with you). But if someone who she deems is a better catch comes along, she will kick you to the curb...for all you know it could be her ex.

Right now she's young and is testing the waters, so enjoy it while it lasts.
It's all good as long as you're using each other and you arent looking for a relationship with her.

But generally girls that do try to hide a guy, are publicly announcing they're not taken which leaves opening for other prospects...and at the same time avoiding the appearance of looking like a slvt
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WesCottII

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There's no problem here dude.

One of my very good girl mates doesn't put guys she dates on her myspace, infact, I rarely ever hear of these guys. She still sleeps with them. Whats the problem? You're getting what you want.
 
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