Girls, is it true that girls know if they'd fvck a guy within 10 seconds?

[RichardTheFrog]

Within 10 seconds of seeing him? I hear guys say this, but how does a guy know what's in a girls brain?

@BeExcellent
@sazc
@AJ84

 

[sazc]

Not for me but I couldn't fathom random d1ck (ew!)

For me it's a combo of looks, personality and compatibility that equal attractiveness.

Plus, I've always looked for something long term, so I like to get to know them. Usually by the end of the first date I know if there is potential for skin to skin contact. But I still wait to put out.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Not for me but I couldn't fathom random d1ck (ew!)

For me it's a combo of looks, personality and compatibility that equal attractiveness.

Plus, I've always looked for something long term, so I like to get to know them. Usually by the end of the first date I know if there is potential for skin to skin contact. But I still wait to put out.

Why do you wait?

 

[AJ84]

Within 10 seconds of seeing him? I hear guys say this, but how does a guy know what's in a girls brain?

@BeExcellent
@sazc
@AJ84

It’s not true for me.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

It’s not true for me.

Just goes to show what a crock of sh1t a lot of the "advice" on here is.

I wonder what other false information this site is filling my brain with.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Human Sexuality 101 (generally speaking):

1-Men are like blowtorches: turn on instantly at the sight of a hot woman, with little regard to personality
2-Women are like ovens: Need to warm to a man (more slowly) and have more to consider beside just his "looks."

Which is why men, rather than women, need good "game" to have sex with a woman. Game is a lot more than just looks (~30%) but also about personality (~70%).

 

[Red Legg]

Just goes to show what a crock of sh1t a lot of the "advice" on here is.

I wonder what other false information this site is filling my brain with.

Awww come on Richard...you know women don't have slvt defense mechanisms not on SS..

 

[zekko]

Just goes to show what a crock of sh1t a lot of the "advice" on here is.

A lot of the universally accepted "truths" are pretty suspect.
PUA dogma is pretty funny: Some guy decided that something is true. A woman will hear it and disavow it. But the PUA will say "A woman doesn't know what she wants, never listen to a woman's advice". It's a great built in fail safe. Because there is no way to prove any of it wrong - because you can't ask a woman. And if you field test it and it doesn't work, then it's either NAWALT or it's your fault because you're uncalibrated.

Anyway, the 10 second thing: It's probably more true for guys than girls, but I don't even think it's always true for guys. I've dismissed many women the first time I saw them, but then over time I realized they were a lot hotter than I originally gave them credit for. It may be generally true, but not always.

 

[MatureDJ]

I think it's more of "I find this man attractive enough so that if everything else is good, I could submit my intimacy to him". Incels lament that they don't get past "I find this man attractive enough".

 

[Tilex]

Usually the eye test never fails.
And it's more than her just looking at you.
You have to get up real close and look deep in her eyes.

Does it have an unusual sparkle?
Are her pupils wide?

If so, then the attraction is already there based on looks alone.
Go for the kiss and the seduction will follow.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

A lot, you should leave

Fvck you.

 

[Dingo]

It might not be 10 seconds but within minutes they figure if you're "fukable"... Doesn't mean they are but that you're someone they would fuk...

That's why first impressions always count.

 

[sazc]

Why do you wait?

I've just never needed to spread my legs for validation. When I was in high school my best friend would sleep with any guy that showed her interest and she was largely unhappy and felt constantly used. Im one who can learn from the experiences of others. That coupled with a strong and rich family life (not monetarily rich, but strong ties) and the message from my parents that my body was valuable - I just never sought validation thru stranger d1ck.

I tried the 'immediate hook up with no reassurances that the person would remain in my life' thing once, just to see. After all, my girlfriends made it a habit of hooking up with no reassurances, what was I missing and how would that feel? I and ended up feeling used and like trash and never did it again. I've had a fair amount of relationships but no where near c0ck carousel count (thank goodness!)

 

[sazc]

I think it's more of "I find this man attractive enough so that if everything else is good, I could probably eventually submit my intimacy to him". Incels lament that they don't get past "I find this man attractive enough".

that's my thinking, minus the incels part.

@RichardTheFrog one of the fallacies I see on this board is the mindset that there is an absolute algorithm to picking up females. There isnt a single algorithm that will always lock her down for the date, for sex, etc, so don't fool yourselves.

Epicurious can post that he can immediately slut talk to an OLD female and she submits. Maybe he can. Maybe he's a keyboard warrior and he's making it up so he looks good on the board. Maybe it will work for you. Maybe it wont.

If what Epicurious says is true, if what Hank Hill says is true about his ability to be successful, I'm pretty sure they have done a lot of trial and error to see what the market in their area will bear when it comes to them specifically, and their manner in approaching females. And no one is 100% successful all the time. I suspect, the gentlemen who advertise that they are successful, have figured out what a reliable approach is for them, in their market. They stick to it, or variations of it, and have more success than denial - and thus feel largely successful.

That said, it's in your best interest to try all of the different approaches you read about on here. Vary those approaches to see what happens. Eventually you may find a few reliable approaches that feel good to you and seem to generate more successes than failures.

So when someone says "I always have success with approach A" and someone says "that approach never works for me but I have success with approach B" You now have two different approaches to TRY, and then contemplate how you could vary those approaches so they might fit your personality and/or your market better.

 

[zekko]

They might rule you out in 10 seconds...

 

[ohrein]

Just goes to show what a crock of sh1t a lot of the "advice" on here is.

I wonder what other false information this site is filling my brain with.

You were in the countless threads about LMS where all the vets continually rejected the idea that LMS was the be all and end all. The advice I see from the quality posters is that cultivating a personality and confidence is more important than looks. Maybe you're paying attention to the wrong people because I have no idea how this is such a revelation to you.

 

[ohrein]

Human Sexuality 101 (generally speaking):

1-Men are like blowtorches: turn on instantly at the sight of a hot woman, with little regard to personality
2-Women are like ovens: Need to warm to a man (more slowly) and have more to consider beside just his "looks."

Which is why men, rather than women, need good "game" to have sex with a woman. Game is a lot more than just looks (~30%) but also about personality (~70%).

Foreplay begins at the last orgasm. Heard this advice once and it's served me well. I think it works similarly with attraction. The lead up to sex begins at the first interaction.

 

[Rainman4707]

I think a woman will walk into the room see a guy & think yes he's fit, I can see myself Fu*king him, if he dosent Fu"k it up i.e no game.
Especially online....she might have met 3 guys before you that were'nt as good in reality as in their online pics. She sees you & thinks yes I like what I see

 

[Macaframalama]

wonder what other false information this site is filling my brain with.

Those socks.

 

[devilkingx2]

in my experience it's not literally 10 seconds but it's not very long either.

if she isn't interested in day 1 (depending on how much you interact on day 1), then she won't be on month 4 either. and if she is going to be interested, then 99% of the time it will be during your first few major interactions.

that's not to say that it's all about LMS and personality doesn't play a role, it's more to say it doesn't take very long to get the general gist of a person and if she doesn't like it, it's unlikely you've got 10 more tricks up your sleeve. but if she does like it. you're in the clear unless she discovers something she absolutely hates within the next few weeks/dates