"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Girls into Paganism & the Occult
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yep. Any reason why they would be different from a woman who studies a different religion?Freddy1 said:
But I think its actually not really so "evil."
I would have to see what beliefs/perspectives they hold.
But anyways... I'd be all for a pagan chick.
Naked earth worshipping in the night-time, etc. lol
No, paganism is actually pretty cool. Its not too crazy.
Just like nature worship, etc.
But to get to the root of your question.
I would def. stand clear of any chick who I thought held some negative perspectives. That would be horrible judgement on my behalf to link my life up, with someone who I deemed destined for anything less than a positive direction.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You don't have to date her and her ex at the same time y'know.Freddy1 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Girls are usually not that serious, I wouldn' worry. She probally likes to use Ouija boards, look at crystals, do yoga, and smoke pot, or whatever.. not evil or anything.
Real satanists are always all guys and the biggest losers on the planet, more so then even anybody on this board.
Remember chicks only do what others do, regardless of what it is. You know everybody else isn' drinking blood and trying to cast spells on people, so neither will she.
Actually, that's not always true, some are just attention *****s.
Worshipping the sun makes more sense to me than most religious mumbo-jumbo, but if there was anything in 'magick' I think we'd know about it by now.
Instinctive
Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
"Really Well I'm not honest and you’re Interesting.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I was wondering if anyone would catch that.Freddy1 said:
