"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls into Paganism & the Occult

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Have you encounter any of them? Would you mess with them?
:nervous:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Freddy1 said:
Have you encounter any of them? Would you mess with them?
:nervous:
Yep. Any reason why they would be different from a woman who studies a different religion?
 

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What if they were member of the Church of Satan & her exboyfriend is into Satanism? :nervous:
 

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I don't know too much about the church of Satanism.
But I think its actually not really so "evil."

I would have to see what beliefs/perspectives they hold.

But anyways... I'd be all for a pagan chick.
Naked earth worshipping in the night-time, etc. lol
No, paganism is actually pretty cool. Its not too crazy.
Just like nature worship, etc.

But to get to the root of your question.
I would def. stand clear of any chick who I thought held some negative perspectives. That would be horrible judgement on my behalf to link my life up, with someone who I deemed destined for anything less than a positive direction.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Freddy1 said:
What if they were member of the Church of Satan & her exboyfriend is into Satanism? :nervous:
You don't have to date her and her ex at the same time y'know.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ_in_making

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I'd really stay away from that crap. :nono:
 

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Girls are usually into that supernatural stuff and guys into conspiracy theories and real occult sh!t.

Girls are usually not that serious, I wouldn' worry. She probally likes to use Ouija boards, look at crystals, do yoga, and smoke pot, or whatever.. not evil or anything.

Real satanists are always all guys and the biggest losers on the planet, more so then even anybody on this board.

Remember chicks only do what others do, regardless of what it is. You know everybody else isn' drinking blood and trying to cast spells on people, so neither will she.
 

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Goth chicks are easy.

Actually, that's not always true, some are just attention *****s.

Worshipping the sun makes more sense to me than most religious mumbo-jumbo, but if there was anything in 'magick' I think we'd know about it by now.
 

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Judge them on their personality. If you enjoy being with them, then go for it, aslong as they don't expect you to be some kind of human sacrifice!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Plus Satanism and Paganism are two totally different things. I'd first learn about her interests without making any assumptions on what's entailed before passing judgement.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For me being into that sh!t is usually a sign of "damaged goods." They usually are not HBs, easy, and turn psycho really quick. Buyer Beware.
 

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Girls that say "I'm Not religious, but I am Spiritual" I like to reply...

"Really Well I'm not honest and you’re Interesting.

~Danial Tosh (Comedian Genius)
 

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nope... Sounds like she has stalker written all over it... When u sleep she is gonna take some of your hair for her shrine/voodoo doll
 

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Well as long as she doesnt sacrifice you to Booga the god of feces, it's all cool.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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