"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girls into Paganism & the Occult
- Thread starter Freddy1
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yep. Any reason why they would be different from a woman who studies a different religion?Freddy1 said:
But I think its actually not really so "evil."
I would have to see what beliefs/perspectives they hold.
But anyways... I'd be all for a pagan chick.
Naked earth worshipping in the night-time, etc. lol
No, paganism is actually pretty cool. Its not too crazy.
Just like nature worship, etc.
But to get to the root of your question.
I would def. stand clear of any chick who I thought held some negative perspectives. That would be horrible judgement on my behalf to link my life up, with someone who I deemed destined for anything less than a positive direction.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You don't have to date her and her ex at the same time y'know.Freddy1 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Girls are usually not that serious, I wouldn' worry. She probally likes to use Ouija boards, look at crystals, do yoga, and smoke pot, or whatever.. not evil or anything.
Real satanists are always all guys and the biggest losers on the planet, more so then even anybody on this board.
Remember chicks only do what others do, regardless of what it is. You know everybody else isn' drinking blood and trying to cast spells on people, so neither will she.
Actually, that's not always true, some are just attention *****s.
Worshipping the sun makes more sense to me than most religious mumbo-jumbo, but if there was anything in 'magick' I think we'd know about it by now.
Instinctive
Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
"Really Well I'm not honest and you’re Interesting.
~Danial Tosh (Comedian Genius)
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I was wondering if anyone would catch that.Freddy1 said:
