"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls intimidated by height...

skumface

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I'm 6'5 and 15, tallest guy around (except for the basketball team)
Ive noticed that some girls (or a lot of them) are put off by my height.

for instance, i was at a disco a while back. I tried dancing with some averaged sized girls but them laughed at me and went somewhere else. my friend ended up dancing with one of these girls and he said that her and her friends thought i was scary cus i was so tall.

A lot of girls say im freakishly tall which i dont know if thats good or bad.

I try to sit down as much as possible when im around girls and i try not to stand right over them while their talking to me but i was wondering what you guys think i can do to seem less intimidating??

thanks in advance
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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immrtlwun

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First off, you're not freakishly tall. I'm 6'4" and I find that my height usually helps my game. The girls I date feel more secure around me because at 6'4" I can intimidate some people. You are also more likely to be noticed by the girls because you stand out from the rest of the crowd.

You might seem a little misplaced now, but it's only because you are huge in proportion to the other guys who are probably around 5'7", but wait for some of them to hit 6' or better, then you won't feel as different.
 

08aisaac

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well how skinny are you? you are probaly skinny. well just don't get fat and you should be fine. lol. I am 5'11 or 6' so it's pretty good for me but maybe you should go for older chicks. use your height to your advantage. there are always chicks that are into the tall guys. just go for the taller chicks.
 

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yeah... chicks go for tall guys.. and when i say that i mean that a lott of the tall girls are hot girls and they want a guy taller than them, aka. you

Good luck
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jed

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tsk, c'mon, dont worry. i'm 6'1 or 6'2 and like most of the time i get some cute glances from girls..hehe..so yeah, just do what you were out to do and good luck!
 

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Originally posted by immrtlwun
First off, you're not freakishly tall.
For his age he is....by the time the other guys hit 6 feet he will probably be very close to 7"or something like that.

But dont worry by the time you get to be that height girls will realize that they like tall men better.
 

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The other day i was with some friends and this girl. After about 3 minutes of talking the girl said "Wow your really tall and she started grinding up against me to "compare height" and kept on doing it for a good half hour. unfortunatly i was at camp so we had to leave and there was no chance i would see her again but still its a good example to of chicks liking tall guys :D
 

dannowillbookem

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wow ur tall for a thirteen year old. yeah that might set off ur game for a while cause the chicks dont realize that tallness=good but hang in there. okay lame advice for a site devoted to getting chicks.

try to make sure they know ur friendly. light kino smiling alot I MEAN ALOT stuff like that seem like a nice guy but still bust on them but make sure ur smiling. u have to offset the scary effect.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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08aisaac

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I got my very first number back in the day from a chick who liked me based on the fact that I was tall. lol
 
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