"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls intimidated by height...

skumface

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I'm 6'5 and 15, tallest guy around (except for the basketball team)
Ive noticed that some girls (or a lot of them) are put off by my height.

for instance, i was at a disco a while back. I tried dancing with some averaged sized girls but them laughed at me and went somewhere else. my friend ended up dancing with one of these girls and he said that her and her friends thought i was scary cus i was so tall.

A lot of girls say im freakishly tall which i dont know if thats good or bad.

I try to sit down as much as possible when im around girls and i try not to stand right over them while their talking to me but i was wondering what you guys think i can do to seem less intimidating??

thanks in advance
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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immrtlwun

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First off, you're not freakishly tall. I'm 6'4" and I find that my height usually helps my game. The girls I date feel more secure around me because at 6'4" I can intimidate some people. You are also more likely to be noticed by the girls because you stand out from the rest of the crowd.

You might seem a little misplaced now, but it's only because you are huge in proportion to the other guys who are probably around 5'7", but wait for some of them to hit 6' or better, then you won't feel as different.
 

08aisaac

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well how skinny are you? you are probaly skinny. well just don't get fat and you should be fine. lol. I am 5'11 or 6' so it's pretty good for me but maybe you should go for older chicks. use your height to your advantage. there are always chicks that are into the tall guys. just go for the taller chicks.
 

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yeah... chicks go for tall guys.. and when i say that i mean that a lott of the tall girls are hot girls and they want a guy taller than them, aka. you

Good luck
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jed

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tsk, c'mon, dont worry. i'm 6'1 or 6'2 and like most of the time i get some cute glances from girls..hehe..so yeah, just do what you were out to do and good luck!
 

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Originally posted by immrtlwun
First off, you're not freakishly tall.
For his age he is....by the time the other guys hit 6 feet he will probably be very close to 7"or something like that.

But dont worry by the time you get to be that height girls will realize that they like tall men better.
 

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The other day i was with some friends and this girl. After about 3 minutes of talking the girl said "Wow your really tall and she started grinding up against me to "compare height" and kept on doing it for a good half hour. unfortunatly i was at camp so we had to leave and there was no chance i would see her again but still its a good example to of chicks liking tall guys :D
 

dannowillbookem

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wow ur tall for a thirteen year old. yeah that might set off ur game for a while cause the chicks dont realize that tallness=good but hang in there. okay lame advice for a site devoted to getting chicks.

try to make sure they know ur friendly. light kino smiling alot I MEAN ALOT stuff like that seem like a nice guy but still bust on them but make sure ur smiling. u have to offset the scary effect.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac

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I got my very first number back in the day from a chick who liked me based on the fact that I was tall. lol
 
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