Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls in your classes

ilikebeef

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Hey guys, I don't really have a problem talking to and getting dates with girls that I don't see every day, but I'm not sure how to approach girls in my classes.

I've been rejected plenty of times, but typically I rarely see the girl afterwards. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to make a move on someone who you will have to see daily afterwords. Anyone have experience here?

Also, even if everything works out for a bit, but we split after a few months, would the ensuing situation in the classroom be too uncomfortable?

This is uncharted territory for me, so I'd appreciate some help from people who have been there before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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IronRice

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I might not be too much help, but nah dont worry about that being in the classroom and seeing her but it might be a bit uncomfertable for a bit. Just still try and be her friend and forget about when you aasked her out.
 

SlyD4rK

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i would save those girls untill you really know how the game works....I even have trouble with these girls...so just save them untill last...
 

GateKeeper

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This happened to me actually. This girl was really being very nice towards me. Always inviting me places, we'd chat, flirt, talk about sex and other stuff, when I asked about where we were, she told me she wanted to get to know me more before we were hooked up.

Anyway, I see her in class the next day, and didn't even bring it up. I flirted, made jokes, interacted with alot of people in class in front of her like always, and it seems to have been cool so far. It depends on how strict your teacher is really. Is it one of those classes were kids are allowed to talk alot, or is it insanely strict and moderated?

If your afraid of the akwardness, and it's a class were talking to another person turns the teacher into a psychotic, sleep deprived mofo, then go ahead. It's not like you guy's are allowed to talk to her. If not, then just be cool afterwards... but lets not even focus so much on that. You have a huge chance of getting her, because... your YOU. Any girl would want to be with you right? And if they don't, they are psychotic and lost.

Peace & God Bless
 

08aisaac

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I always go for girls in class. Since my strongest point is conversation, this is easy as hell for me.

Basically, you have to get a good rapport going.

Learn how to be a conversationalist.

Since you will see them everyday, there is definitely no rush.

So you see this girl a while, and you are talking to her and you have some good conversatin in, then you can get the number after numerous class periods. You can get it sooner if you want, but I recommend taking your time.

Even after you get her number, you don't have to call, and you can just talk to her in class, and call if you feel like calling.

Of course, you all know what to do, but I would have to say converation is key, in this situation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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