"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls in your classes

ilikebeef

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Hey guys, I don't really have a problem talking to and getting dates with girls that I don't see every day, but I'm not sure how to approach girls in my classes.

I've been rejected plenty of times, but typically I rarely see the girl afterwards. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to make a move on someone who you will have to see daily afterwords. Anyone have experience here?

Also, even if everything works out for a bit, but we split after a few months, would the ensuing situation in the classroom be too uncomfortable?

This is uncharted territory for me, so I'd appreciate some help from people who have been there before.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IronRice

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I might not be too much help, but nah dont worry about that being in the classroom and seeing her but it might be a bit uncomfertable for a bit. Just still try and be her friend and forget about when you aasked her out.
 

SlyD4rK

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i would save those girls untill you really know how the game works....I even have trouble with these girls...so just save them untill last...
 

GateKeeper

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This happened to me actually. This girl was really being very nice towards me. Always inviting me places, we'd chat, flirt, talk about sex and other stuff, when I asked about where we were, she told me she wanted to get to know me more before we were hooked up.

Anyway, I see her in class the next day, and didn't even bring it up. I flirted, made jokes, interacted with alot of people in class in front of her like always, and it seems to have been cool so far. It depends on how strict your teacher is really. Is it one of those classes were kids are allowed to talk alot, or is it insanely strict and moderated?

If your afraid of the akwardness, and it's a class were talking to another person turns the teacher into a psychotic, sleep deprived mofo, then go ahead. It's not like you guy's are allowed to talk to her. If not, then just be cool afterwards... but lets not even focus so much on that. You have a huge chance of getting her, because... your YOU. Any girl would want to be with you right? And if they don't, they are psychotic and lost.

Peace & God Bless
 

08aisaac

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I always go for girls in class. Since my strongest point is conversation, this is easy as hell for me.

Basically, you have to get a good rapport going.

Learn how to be a conversationalist.

Since you will see them everyday, there is definitely no rush.

So you see this girl a while, and you are talking to her and you have some good conversatin in, then you can get the number after numerous class periods. You can get it sooner if you want, but I recommend taking your time.

Even after you get her number, you don't have to call, and you can just talk to her in class, and call if you feel like calling.

Of course, you all know what to do, but I would have to say converation is key, in this situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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