"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls in your classes

ilikebeef

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Hey guys, I don't really have a problem talking to and getting dates with girls that I don't see every day, but I'm not sure how to approach girls in my classes.

I've been rejected plenty of times, but typically I rarely see the girl afterwards. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to make a move on someone who you will have to see daily afterwords. Anyone have experience here?

Also, even if everything works out for a bit, but we split after a few months, would the ensuing situation in the classroom be too uncomfortable?

This is uncharted territory for me, so I'd appreciate some help from people who have been there before.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IronRice

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I might not be too much help, but nah dont worry about that being in the classroom and seeing her but it might be a bit uncomfertable for a bit. Just still try and be her friend and forget about when you aasked her out.
 

SlyD4rK

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i would save those girls untill you really know how the game works....I even have trouble with these girls...so just save them untill last...
 

GateKeeper

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This happened to me actually. This girl was really being very nice towards me. Always inviting me places, we'd chat, flirt, talk about sex and other stuff, when I asked about where we were, she told me she wanted to get to know me more before we were hooked up.

Anyway, I see her in class the next day, and didn't even bring it up. I flirted, made jokes, interacted with alot of people in class in front of her like always, and it seems to have been cool so far. It depends on how strict your teacher is really. Is it one of those classes were kids are allowed to talk alot, or is it insanely strict and moderated?

If your afraid of the akwardness, and it's a class were talking to another person turns the teacher into a psychotic, sleep deprived mofo, then go ahead. It's not like you guy's are allowed to talk to her. If not, then just be cool afterwards... but lets not even focus so much on that. You have a huge chance of getting her, because... your YOU. Any girl would want to be with you right? And if they don't, they are psychotic and lost.

Peace & God Bless
 

08aisaac

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I always go for girls in class. Since my strongest point is conversation, this is easy as hell for me.

Basically, you have to get a good rapport going.

Learn how to be a conversationalist.

Since you will see them everyday, there is definitely no rush.

So you see this girl a while, and you are talking to her and you have some good conversatin in, then you can get the number after numerous class periods. You can get it sooner if you want, but I recommend taking your time.

Even after you get her number, you don't have to call, and you can just talk to her in class, and call if you feel like calling.

Of course, you all know what to do, but I would have to say converation is key, in this situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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