Girls in your class..who sit next to you

[Babnik]

Doesn't it seem real awkward to be dating a girl who you get to see 2-3 times a week in your classroom and she also sits next to you?

It makes you available at set times and it just tends to kill my game because they always start talking to me.

What do you do in this case? Move to another end of the room?

I tried that, but they catch me AFTER class...

 

[The Bartender]

You're complaining about chicks talking to you in class and after class?

 

[Wolves]

Lol what are you afraid of? How is it gonna "kill your game" if a girl you're dating talks to you... unless you're trying to pick up other girls in that class I don't see how its a problem lol.

 

[Babnik]

The one thing bad i can get bad from it is that attraction can be lost much more quickly. Talking, Talking, Talking. Someone is bound to lose attraction their. If not you she will.

THANK YOU!

 

[Dash Ravishing]

Seeing her more = more work on your part to keep her interested

-Dash Ravishing, hero

 

[Babnik]

wtf why would she lose attraction just because you talk to her more... that's retarded, it's not like you are calling her constantly you just happen to be sitting next to her in class. why can't you just use it as an opportunity to make her more attracted?

Understand that a girl needs time to miss you and think about you and not have you any time she wants.

 

[Plec07]

Couldn't have said it better myself Luke.

To the OP you could try focusing more on your work but try not to convay yourself as boring while doing so.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

AHHH AFCs stop giving advice you prob don't even talk to girls during class to understand what kind of situation the thread starter is in. I had the exact same problem, I would talk to girls in class they would show IOI and stuff. But because I would see them every single day it's hard to keep the attraction high. That's why you should either avoid her don't be rude but just talking to other girls or friends in class instead of her. Also if your in highschool/college goin for chicks in the same class is pretty bad cuz if you screw up then you have to deal with seein her everyday! Nothin is worse then getting rejected in the first month of school then having to sit next to the girl for the rest of the year! lol

Personally I think dating girls at work or school especially the same class is a BAD IDEA, cuz you still have to see her and deal with drama. That's why you should see ppl outside of work/school so you can have some privacy.

Well that said it's possible to keep the attraction high by being fun to be around during class. Instead of talking to her one on one have your friend help you and have a huge group talk with everyone. That's what I do and it works for me.

 

[Jack-Torrance]

FANTASTIC Reply, I've had the same problem, I just never act predictable, it's predictability that bores girls not conversation...

But hell yeah it's hard maintaining it for so long...

 

[The Shocker]

agreed with those saying it becomes more difficult, it does. THe person who made the song analogy, nice job.