"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I sit next to these two girls in a tutoring class I have, and I only get about 5 min of time to talk to them if that. Bcuz they come right at the start and sometimes leave during breaks.

I feel like there isnt enough time to create attraction w/o disrupting the class.

Aside from that I know that it is still doable with the right skills and approach. However I tried to get the conversation flowing but only could think of bland convo starters, this and that...just BS.

TO me things that get a girl to laugh and DHV at the same time are golden.

I talked but I couldnt really think of anything that built attraction.

Should I get down on myself, for trying but not doing as well as I expected myself to do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"so you're a student here. i can tutor you but its going to cost you.... wait never mind. you can't afford me."

etc.

just make funny comments, cause they're fun and you're having fun being witty. if they interested, they'll respond.


btw, im digging the "Looking for a beautiful Aisan bride?" ad. the chick's super cute.
 
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hmm

but i cant stop myself from being to hard on myself for missing an opportunity and having nothing to say grr. are most ppl hard on themselves or is a good player just take it in stride
 
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