"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls in my tutor class

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harkkam08

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I sit next to these two girls in a tutoring class I have, and I only get about 5 min of time to talk to them if that. Bcuz they come right at the start and sometimes leave during breaks.

I feel like there isnt enough time to create attraction w/o disrupting the class.

Aside from that I know that it is still doable with the right skills and approach. However I tried to get the conversation flowing but only could think of bland convo starters, this and that...just BS.

TO me things that get a girl to laugh and DHV at the same time are golden.

I talked but I couldnt really think of anything that built attraction.

Should I get down on myself, for trying but not doing as well as I expected myself to do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"so you're a student here. i can tutor you but its going to cost you.... wait never mind. you can't afford me."

etc.

just make funny comments, cause they're fun and you're having fun being witty. if they interested, they'll respond.


btw, im digging the "Looking for a beautiful Aisan bride?" ad. the chick's super cute.
 
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hmm

but i cant stop myself from being to hard on myself for missing an opportunity and having nothing to say grr. are most ppl hard on themselves or is a good player just take it in stride
 
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