Over the past few months I've been slowly changing from interaction with this site and thinking about and taking action to improve myself.
I had two women friends who I was a total afc to before. For one of them 90% of the time she would ever say a word to me is just to ask me for help and stuff in class, otherwise she'd kind of ignore me. She'd even bat her eyes and do the whole little girly plea voice when asking and I took time out of what I was doing to help her even though I honestly didn't want to. Now I realize being her ***** isn't going to get my anywhere and just tell her to do her own work or figure it out herself. (is that so ****ing evil?)
The other girl was just a giant attention slut. She hangs out with almost all guys, she is always touching and flirting with them, even her best friends boyfriend and is just very feely and stuff, but I believe its all just because she likes the attention guys give her for being flirtacious, I tried to get her to go out with me once but got rejected, and she would let me grab her ass and everything so I didn't know what was up back then. I made some lighthearted fun of her once and don't even bother going over to talk to her or waste my time giving her the attention she craves anymore.
Now both of these chicks have started going around saying how I'm mean or a jerk or an ass now. They are disrespecting and badmouthing me in front of other people for no good reason.
My dilemma is, do I tell these girls what I think of them (and I have some rather scathing remarks in mind) or do I just forget it. It's a small school/town. I'm worried doing this could potentially damage my reputation.
I had two women friends who I was a total afc to before. For one of them 90% of the time she would ever say a word to me is just to ask me for help and stuff in class, otherwise she'd kind of ignore me. She'd even bat her eyes and do the whole little girly plea voice when asking and I took time out of what I was doing to help her even though I honestly didn't want to. Now I realize being her ***** isn't going to get my anywhere and just tell her to do her own work or figure it out herself. (is that so ****ing evil?)
The other girl was just a giant attention slut. She hangs out with almost all guys, she is always touching and flirting with them, even her best friends boyfriend and is just very feely and stuff, but I believe its all just because she likes the attention guys give her for being flirtacious, I tried to get her to go out with me once but got rejected, and she would let me grab her ass and everything so I didn't know what was up back then. I made some lighthearted fun of her once and don't even bother going over to talk to her or waste my time giving her the attention she craves anymore.
Now both of these chicks have started going around saying how I'm mean or a jerk or an ass now. They are disrespecting and badmouthing me in front of other people for no good reason.
My dilemma is, do I tell these girls what I think of them (and I have some rather scathing remarks in mind) or do I just forget it. It's a small school/town. I'm worried doing this could potentially damage my reputation.
