You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I've been told that and it seems like I get even more attention when Im in the right frame. I've pulled two chicks in the last week by just making EC and they both opened me. Real players know that women come to you--Titanium said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No. I dress like a normal person. Nothing out of the ordinary or extreme.Bvbidd said:
Not only is that illegal and morally deplorable, but I can't imagine it being any good for a guy's reputation. So to answer your question, no.dannowillbookem said:
Luke!! said:
Glaring is like a pissed-off look, looks like they want to punch you in the face or something. Staring on the other hand, is usually not associated with anger.ScrewIt said:
Holland said:
skeeloo said:
You guys, and chickenlegs03, all think glaring is a good thing? Well I guess next time that happens I ought to test this theory out eh?Titanium said:
Ok... but if I get arrested it's on youPowertripII said:
. I can just imagine the police interview:Stared at, but not glared at? Either way, I can't imagine it being anything short of irritating to have people looking at you all the time! Well, sometimes it's nice to get a friendly look but other times doesn't it get on your nerves a bit?SELF-MASTERY said:
Bvbidd said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I should have known this was the wrong forum to ask a stupid question like this! . Still, I appreciate all responses.