Girls getting comfortable with you/friendship zone

[hb]

Got this realllly cool chick I hang out with from time to time, initially we hooked up but the last few times we've hung out we basically joked around & told stories as friends would...

Now I want to make the transition back to hooking up before its too late, I don't want her to start seeing me as a friend, how do I turn the tables once again? Should I do is boldly or be an a*sh*le............

 

[horaholic]

How about this: When you're hanging out joking around as friends, you grab her and kiss her.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Tell her in a joking manner "I know we both like telling our silly little stories but I keep thinking, DAMN! When are we BOTH going to get our 'happy ending' WOMAN!?"

See how she reacts. If there's silence or she seems uncomfortable. Then you may be a friend.

If she goes with it..Then keep it light but escalate subtlely.

 

[hb]

Well the first time we actually hooked up we were "play fighting" & i just vampired her neck like i was in twilight or some thing & she started moaning, but now I want to bone or head.... next step........??

 

[joe henny]

Stop hanging out with her. Stop acting and treating her like a friend. DUH!

 

[Lexington]

There's a simple solution to this confusion: make a move on her the next time you hang out. What were you doing just sitting there and telling jokes? Were you expecting her to make a move on your or something? Just go for it and assume she will be receptive.

If it turns out that she's not, you have officially been friendzoned.

 

[SandHawk]

Well the first time we actually hooked up we were "play fighting" & i just vampired her neck like i was in twilight or some thing & she started moaning, but now I want to bone or head.... next step........??

Did that even go beyond her moaning and you 'vampiring' her neck? Because to me, it sounds like you jsut bit her neck and she moaned and you all the sudden got the idea that you guys hooked up. You hooked up when you blew your load inside of her or all over her(when she's asleep it doesn't count).

It's simple: To stop yourself from being an actual friend, you do the stuff that lovers/f*ckbuddies do with her: You make out, you get under her clothing, skullf*ck her and whatnot. If you already escalated with her in the past, re-escalating is easy, you just make out with her. Just man the f*ck, grab your balls and kiss her.

 

[PlayCold]

STOP ACTING LIKE A FRIEND TO HER! Make the moves....

 

[hb]

Dudes this is what I think seriously limits me from getting as much snatch as I potentially can... Just ****ing go for it & girls love it when I just want to bone the **** out of them