"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls get attached to me too easy.

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Ok since christmas i have been with 3 girls.

First girl i was friends with for about 2 months before we had sex. We made it only sex but 2 weeks after it happened she wanted to change the rules. I started acting a little harsh as I didnt want more. (we had agreed on the one...well...two nights)

Second girl i knew for about a week and was having regular sex with. I never once asked her out or initated and kind of commitment. Anyways after that week i got cold feet on it and once again cut loose. She kept on bugging me and telling me she loves me.....1 WEEK! Anyways

Third girl is the girl i have been seeing for the past 3-4 days. We have been shagging every night but I am currently gaming a girl I may want a LTR with. I am with this third girl mainly for some action plus she is fit! She doesnt have the lasting qualites that matter for a LTR thow. Anyways i am getting indicators that she is falling for me.

I am not good at dealing with women who do become deeply intrested and it seems that they are at the moment. How do you break off with a girl like this without pissing her off/hurting her?

Why are they becoming so attached so quick? Am i treating them to good?

Few things i would like to clear up.
Im not scared of LTR. Im just very picky
My system has always been to trail a girl for 2-3 weeks before either going LTR or getting rid.

Any advice or thoughts?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Tomatoes
She doesnt have the superfical things that matter for a LTR thow.
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You may want to rethink this sentence.
 
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Re: Re: Girls get attached to me too easy.

Originally posted by L777
You may want to rethink this sentence.
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Edited. I was at work and couldnt fully concentrate. Think i merged 2 dif sentances i was writing then.
 
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it's quite normal. after they give u sex they almost always start to look for commitment. thats why u always gotta make ur objectives clear. but oh well some times they still hope to be able to hook u into LTR even if u set the parameters already
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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