"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls get attached to me too easy.

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Ok since christmas i have been with 3 girls.

First girl i was friends with for about 2 months before we had sex. We made it only sex but 2 weeks after it happened she wanted to change the rules. I started acting a little harsh as I didnt want more. (we had agreed on the one...well...two nights)

Second girl i knew for about a week and was having regular sex with. I never once asked her out or initated and kind of commitment. Anyways after that week i got cold feet on it and once again cut loose. She kept on bugging me and telling me she loves me.....1 WEEK! Anyways

Third girl is the girl i have been seeing for the past 3-4 days. We have been shagging every night but I am currently gaming a girl I may want a LTR with. I am with this third girl mainly for some action plus she is fit! She doesnt have the lasting qualites that matter for a LTR thow. Anyways i am getting indicators that she is falling for me.

I am not good at dealing with women who do become deeply intrested and it seems that they are at the moment. How do you break off with a girl like this without pissing her off/hurting her?

Why are they becoming so attached so quick? Am i treating them to good?

Few things i would like to clear up.
Im not scared of LTR. Im just very picky
My system has always been to trail a girl for 2-3 weeks before either going LTR or getting rid.

Any advice or thoughts?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Tomatoes
She doesnt have the superfical things that matter for a LTR thow.
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You may want to rethink this sentence.
 
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Re: Re: Girls get attached to me too easy.

Originally posted by L777
You may want to rethink this sentence.
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Edited. I was at work and couldnt fully concentrate. Think i merged 2 dif sentances i was writing then.
 
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it's quite normal. after they give u sex they almost always start to look for commitment. thats why u always gotta make ur objectives clear. but oh well some times they still hope to be able to hook u into LTR even if u set the parameters already
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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