"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls get attached to me too easy.

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Ok since christmas i have been with 3 girls.

First girl i was friends with for about 2 months before we had sex. We made it only sex but 2 weeks after it happened she wanted to change the rules. I started acting a little harsh as I didnt want more. (we had agreed on the one...well...two nights)

Second girl i knew for about a week and was having regular sex with. I never once asked her out or initated and kind of commitment. Anyways after that week i got cold feet on it and once again cut loose. She kept on bugging me and telling me she loves me.....1 WEEK! Anyways

Third girl is the girl i have been seeing for the past 3-4 days. We have been shagging every night but I am currently gaming a girl I may want a LTR with. I am with this third girl mainly for some action plus she is fit! She doesnt have the lasting qualites that matter for a LTR thow. Anyways i am getting indicators that she is falling for me.

I am not good at dealing with women who do become deeply intrested and it seems that they are at the moment. How do you break off with a girl like this without pissing her off/hurting her?

Why are they becoming so attached so quick? Am i treating them to good?

Few things i would like to clear up.
Im not scared of LTR. Im just very picky
My system has always been to trail a girl for 2-3 weeks before either going LTR or getting rid.

Any advice or thoughts?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Tomatoes
She doesnt have the superfical things that matter for a LTR thow.
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You may want to rethink this sentence.
 
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Re: Re: Girls get attached to me too easy.

Originally posted by L777
You may want to rethink this sentence.
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Edited. I was at work and couldnt fully concentrate. Think i merged 2 dif sentances i was writing then.
 
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it's quite normal. after they give u sex they almost always start to look for commitment. thats why u always gotta make ur objectives clear. but oh well some times they still hope to be able to hook u into LTR even if u set the parameters already
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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