Girls from back in the day...

[speedo_meme]

I have to admit I've always been pretty AFC until the past two years or so. I'm a pretty good looking guy, athletic, middle class, but I always had a complex about not being good enough. Whether it was rich enough, cool enough, you know, basically had a self esteem problem and looked for validation everywhere else besides myself. There always seemed like there were girls I couldn't have from the get-go, even before I talked to them, because I wasn't rich enough, didn't have the best car, the best friends, etc. I mean, I had fun and was popular in high school and college, but I couldv'e done a lot better, I guess I was just immature and insecure.

Well now I moved off on my own but I still keep in touch with all my old friends. I'm very confident now and I am rolling in girls (basically because they didn't know me before I had perfected my game). Everytime I see the girls I never had a chance with from high school or college, it seems my game is gone and it's just like old times, sort of like we implanted our places back then and it never changes. The type girls that I used to could never get where I used to live I can get easily here. It's weird, and I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced that.

 

[Desdinova]

I only had this problem once. I encountered this ugly b1tch that I hated. When I saw her, all those old 5hitty feelings came rushing back, and I wanted to run. Sounds lame, but it happened.

Other than that, I've banged a couple of girls I was too scared to ask out when I was an AFC. That gave me an incredible feeling of victory!

 

[MightyMate]

Dont mess with ex from old times. She met You as AFC and thats who You gonna stay for her.

 

[RedPill]

Originally posted by speedo_meme
Well now I moved off on my own but I still keep in touch with all my old friends. I'm very confident now and I am rolling in girls (basically because they didn't know me before I had perfected my game). Everytime I see the girls I never had a chance with from high school or college, it seems my game is gone and it's just like old times, sort of like we implanted our places back then and it never changes. The type girls that I used to could never get where I used to live I can get easily here. It's weird, and I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced that.

It's all about perceptions. You'll always be anchored in the old school girl's mind as a chump... until she perceives otherwise. I find more often than not (it happened today actually) that when I run into a girl that I thought was way out of my league during my AFC days, either:

1) I can't believe my dumb ass ever held her in high regard, or
2) If she happens to be hot now, years later, I find myself teasing her, busting her, basically gaming her like any other random hot chick.

Usually it's the first case. In most instances she was perhaps in the 6-8 range back in the day, and the addition of body fat and possible unplanned children have dropped her to the 4-6 range.

The best thing I can say regarding your experience is that if you've truly actualized as a DJ, you won't revert to your old paradigms.

Dont mess with ex from old times. She met You as AFC and thats who You gonna stay for her.

Couldn't disagree more. While yes, you shouldn't be messing with ex's, you certainly can change people's perceptions quite easily. Let's say you run into a hot chick from your high school who only remembers the nerdly chump version of you from back in the day. Do you think she's going to continue to see you like that if you exude total confidence, look and act like you have some testosterone in you now, and possibly are spotted with another attractive woman? I think not.

 

[phoneproblems]

you can have these girls

they respond to whatever you give them today. i've had chicks who were too good for me in HS flat out proposition me in college. and ditto for college chicks I ran into later.

but if you revert to AFC in their presence it won't work. so in that case just avoid them. don't ruin your game