"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girls friend embarrases her......

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well today after 7th period i was walking pretending not to notice the gilr i like, she calls my name and we start talking, just about when we start to go downstairs her friend pulls on my backpack and takes me aside and ask's me if i like her friend, i respond with "i like her as a friend". and she says "well she likes you a lot more than just a friend" now as she is saying the other girl comes back and hears what she says. she blushes and starts saying stuff about this being embarrasing.

now she is angry with this girl. now i've come to the knowledge that all of her friends knew that she likes me.

now is she embarassed that she likes me, or the fact that her friend told me in front of her face.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i already flirt with her, but i was thinking that i should take her aside tommorrow and ask her to homecoming.

i'm a senior and she is a sophmore btw, do you think thats weird?

but i am 16, and she is 15, we both have birthdays in october however. so the only big difference is the grade level
 
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instead of calling this a problem (it isn't) you should just look at the situation and appreciate it. I always think it's kind of cute/funny when this happens to me (girl gets all embarrassed because her friend blurted out her "secret"). I can bet you that this girl you like is at least a little relieved that she didn't have to directly confess to you her feelings. Roll with it son:cool:

Oh and don't worry about the age difference. If you're okay with it, then do it
 
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her friend didn't accidentally blurt it out, she said it just to make her embarrased
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you like her, she likes you. you + her = babies

math is educational and fun!

go for it bud
 
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i have a problem now, iwas going to aske her to homecoming today, but right when she saw me this is what she said "do you think that I like you?" and said "well thats what your friend said yesterday" and then she said that her friend was lying. she said that her friend didn't like the guy that she is going to homecoming with so she was trying to hook her up with some other guys.

then she asked me "everything is good now right, no more awkwardness right?"

and i said "i guess"

now i feel sad, and that i've lost my chance.
 
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personally, i would have just said. "that's too bad"

that way, if she actually does like you and was just too embarrassed to admit it, she now will. if not, you don't lose anything
 
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That sucks vaan. I think she's telling the truth or else she wouldn't have gotten out of her way to do that (unless she REALLY likes you and is really shy about it)

Go to the dance with someone else....see if she gets jealous at all and just go from there. Move on for now tho
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she also kinda "forces" me to walk with her after 2nd and 7th period, so i can't exactly avoid her either.

ex: when we walk together she "locks" her arm with mine like a couple would >_>. and if i try to walk away she'll grab my arm with both hands and pull me.

weird i know.

like today she dragged me into a ground of some of her friends and i tried to walk away she would grab tighter and tighter. and i then would drag her across te hallway.

i took these as signs of interest, thats why i believed her friend.
 
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Besides doing what I said earlier, you could also talk to her friends and ask them about it.....
 
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