"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So, I'm talking redpill stuff/game, to my friend who thinks I'm mean for walking away from a girl (obvious blue piller) I bit concerned because I found out, I was close to being an earshot from her. Didn't use her name or anything. Should be ok.

Anyway, got thinking... Any plate find out your a DJ/redpiller? If so, what was their response or reaction? I would like to keep it under my hat, as it were, but I also would like to help out a friend.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So, I'm talking redpill stuff/game, to my friend who thinks I'm mean for walking away from a girl (obvious blue piller) I bit concerned because I found out, I was close to being an earshot from her. Didn't use her name or anything. Should be ok.

Anyway, got thinking... Any plate find out your a DJ/redpiller? If so, what was their response or reaction? I would like to keep it under my hat, as it were, but I also would like to help out a friend.
I've had a few find out. It never really effects anything because women are so solipsistic in nature. Pretty much anything goes in one ear and out the other. If she likes you she won't care about way you say.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^ Both the above responses can be true but I wouldn't advice mentioning it. Women think about men only from their own self-absorbed perspective, they don't think about and won't sympathise with any other way of viewing things. But if she has high IL and you just mention it in a light-hearted way, she might not care because with high IL you get more leeway in general - the odds of her not caring get better the less stupid she is. But I personally have never had any benefits from "sharing" the red pill with women. They only like to "hear" about it when it's done in a visceral/intuitive way, like suddenly grabbing them from behind and choking them while you whisper how you're gonna fvck them and start touching their pvssy, groping their ass in public, not doing weak things, and so on - basically just demonstrate red pill behaviour. It's just an unnecessary risk to "rationally" talk about it when they have no ability to understand let alone appreciate it.
 
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That's the way to handle business.
 

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There really should never be a reason why a woman finds out about one's activities here. It is 100% ill-advised to let them know. This place doesn't exist.
Well, unless you're a giant assh0le like me who throws his fellow men under the bus at every given opportunity.

Try this line:
I post on a how-to-get girls web site to try to help all the dateless wonder guys. Some of them are depressed about women to the point of being suicidal. It upsets me a lot. I try to help when I can.

Yes, I have said that to several women. It always comes off as me being a great guy. None of them ever go look up sosuave. They probably think I am telling guys to "just be nice" so they can get a date.
 

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Well, unless you're a giant assh0le like me who throws his fellow men under the bus at every given opportunity.

Try this line:
I post on a how-to-get girls web site to try to help all the dateless wonder guys. Some of them are depressed about women to the point of being suicidal. It upsets me a lot. I try to help when I can.

Yes, I have said that to several women. It always comes off as me being a great guy. None of them ever go look up sosuave. They probably think I am telling guys to "just be nice" so they can get a date.
Nicely played!

I think that this site, even with all the bad apples, should be a well guarded secret. Also thinking, I should just keep my big mouth shut, from now on!

It's so hard, when you feel like a million dollars!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When you put that "SOSUAVE" effect on women, believe me they will feel it!! I've been called a player many many times or they'll say it's something different about you by good looking women. You just got to get used to it b/c it comes with the territory of being a DJ.

Do/Did women you know ever talk to you about what their all female slumber parties topic of discussions were, female nights out or at their all female book clubs meetings or social gatherings? Every event I just describe was about who they wish they can fvck!!
 
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This is very true. Women love when they can think of a man as just "getting it".

This falls into the realm of staying mysterious, too. As a performing guitarist, if my audiences knew about the countless hours I have spent practicing my craft, they would be less impressed. They desire to think that it just flows out of me like water, and I'm happy to oblige.

I believe that a necessary part of life for a man is creating the aura that he wants others to perceive. This isn't the simplistic "caring about what others think", but rather the art of influence and power. Within that aura a man can dismiss or accept whomever he desires.
 

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If she finds out that you were reading red pill stuff, say yes. That you get newsletters in the email and was just checking it out.

Be casual but don't be a wuss and back down from her.

It's okay for women to read Cosmo, Life, Essence etc that preach "10 sex moves that will keep him wrapped around your finger" but it's bad for a man to read "5 ways to improve your body to be more confident".

In these anti-masculinity days, more men need to start being bolder and less feminine conventional. If she doesn't like it then she can go suck a big fat one.
 

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If she finds out that you were reading red pill stuff, say yes. That you get newsletters in the email and was just checking it out.

Be casual but don't be a wuss and back down from her.

It's okay for women to read Cosmo, Life, Essence etc that preach "10 sex moves that will keep him wrapped around your finger" but it's bad for a man to read "5 ways to improve your body to be more confident".

In these anti-masculinity days, more men need to start being bolder and less feminine conventional. If she doesn't like it then she can go suck a big fat one.
Reminds me of "the rules"

See:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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