Les Savy said:
I don't like calling it a problem because I seem like a jackass if I do.
It's ok to call it a "problem" because that's what it is.
You're "spider sense" or that is your ability to sense that
something is "off" when you deal with girls is working well.
Les Savy said:
But it seems like I attract women in a wrong sense, you know?
I know
EXACTLY what you mean.
The problem is that you have something missing in your interacting with girls,and the thing that's missing is you letting the girls know that you're interested in them.
Les Savy said:
I don't find it a problem, but I'm pretty short (5'3) and most girls at school find me adorable. They like to be around me, hold me, etc. But I don't think they'd consider dating me.
The problem is that you're acting like more of a friend to these girls than acting like a MAN. They think you're cute and adorable,the same way they would a cute little puppy.
There's no sexual attraction present,but cuteness and adorableness.
Les savy said:
I have ****y-funny down to a T,
****y-funny is like a bridge. It's just meant to help you get from one place to another.
****y-funny IS NOT the goal. The goal is to DATE the girl. ****y-funny is just supposed to help you out along the way.
So ****y-funny itself is
not enough. You have to use the ****y-funny for a little while,
then ask her out.
You HAVE TO ask the girl out evenutually. Just being ****y-funny over and over again WITHOUT asking her out will lead you to friendzone city.
Les savy said:
It feels like I'm insta friend zoned because of my size.
I doubt it's because of your size. It's more likely because you have no flirtiness,no sexualness added to your ****yfunniness.
The best way would be for you to give us an example of what you say to girls when you try to get them interested in you.
If we can see what it is you say to them,we should be able to see where the problem is and help you out.
