"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls fiddling with hair?

wudiez

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Is this really a sign of attraction..

Because i had a girl, do it a **** load tonight ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wudiez

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what's ec? but smiling when i smile..

Oh yea... ;)
 

Paintballguy

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ec=eye contact

but I say your pretty good. Next time you see her, look directly into her eyes and see how she reacts.
 

VictorK

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I went out with a girl 2 days ago that did the same thing. People say its a definite sign of interest, but also some girls just love playing with their hair.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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evolvingnerd

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it can also be a sign of boredom
and smiling out of politness
but so long as she was activley taking part in the convo u can take it as interest
but if she was seeking out an excuse to leave, continuousloy "looking for a friend she was supposed to meet"
bad sign

good luck with it
 

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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
it can also be a sign of boredom
and smiling out of politness
but so long as she was activley taking part in the convo u can take it as interest
but if she was seeking out an excuse to leave, continuousloy "looking for a friend she was supposed to meet"
bad sign

good luck with it

Dude got money.


I was wondering this myself last year, everytime I would be in a group of conversation this girl was in, she would always play with her hair and brush it againts her face. I don't know if it was a good sign or not... I try not to look into these things until I make a move but it still made me wonder.

I doubt she was bored though...


meh.
 

wudiez

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I actually thought fiddling with her hair, its a sign that she's comfortable around you. Like she's comforatble enough to do little girly things around you.

I doubt its a sign of boredom, because if it was, she'd just look very uninterested and out of it.

Btw, this girl was also playing with my hands and reading my palms ;) Maybe it is a sign of interest?

She was also generally continuing the conversation very well..

Could it be interest, we have dirty danced in the past. But then again alot of girls think dirty dancing is nothing.
 

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Just to let you know, IL isn't some static unchangable thing. DJs have control over a girl's IL.
 

Microphone Fiend

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hmmmmm last time i checked, you were supposed to go up to her and find out, and not run home to your computer tand talk about your first encounter with a "non-internet" gurl. You wasted everyones time, I can't believe you think you're worth a post because you had a gurl fiddle with her hair. This happens to everyone and yes, it means attraction but YOU DID nothing so NO ONE CARES!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dee-Zy

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
hmmmmm last time i checked, you were supposed to go up to her and find out, and not run home to your computer tand talk about your first encounter with a "non-internet" gurl. You wasted everyones time, I can't believe you think you're worth a post because you had a gurl fiddle with her hair. This happens to everyone and yes, it means attraction but YOU DID nothing so NO ONE CARES!
ouch, that was harsh.
 
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