"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls fiddling with hair?

wudiez

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Is this really a sign of attraction..

Because i had a girl, do it a **** load tonight ;)
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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wudiez

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what's ec? but smiling when i smile..

Oh yea... ;)
 

Paintballguy

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ec=eye contact

but I say your pretty good. Next time you see her, look directly into her eyes and see how she reacts.
 

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I went out with a girl 2 days ago that did the same thing. People say its a definite sign of interest, but also some girls just love playing with their hair.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it can also be a sign of boredom
and smiling out of politness
but so long as she was activley taking part in the convo u can take it as interest
but if she was seeking out an excuse to leave, continuousloy "looking for a friend she was supposed to meet"
bad sign

good luck with it
 

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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
it can also be a sign of boredom
and smiling out of politness
but so long as she was activley taking part in the convo u can take it as interest
but if she was seeking out an excuse to leave, continuousloy "looking for a friend she was supposed to meet"
bad sign

good luck with it

Dude got money.


I was wondering this myself last year, everytime I would be in a group of conversation this girl was in, she would always play with her hair and brush it againts her face. I don't know if it was a good sign or not... I try not to look into these things until I make a move but it still made me wonder.

I doubt she was bored though...


meh.
 

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I actually thought fiddling with her hair, its a sign that she's comfortable around you. Like she's comforatble enough to do little girly things around you.

I doubt its a sign of boredom, because if it was, she'd just look very uninterested and out of it.

Btw, this girl was also playing with my hands and reading my palms ;) Maybe it is a sign of interest?

She was also generally continuing the conversation very well..

Could it be interest, we have dirty danced in the past. But then again alot of girls think dirty dancing is nothing.
 

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Just to let you know, IL isn't some static unchangable thing. DJs have control over a girl's IL.
 

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hmmmmm last time i checked, you were supposed to go up to her and find out, and not run home to your computer tand talk about your first encounter with a "non-internet" gurl. You wasted everyones time, I can't believe you think you're worth a post because you had a gurl fiddle with her hair. This happens to everyone and yes, it means attraction but YOU DID nothing so NO ONE CARES!
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
hmmmmm last time i checked, you were supposed to go up to her and find out, and not run home to your computer tand talk about your first encounter with a "non-internet" gurl. You wasted everyones time, I can't believe you think you're worth a post because you had a gurl fiddle with her hair. This happens to everyone and yes, it means attraction but YOU DID nothing so NO ONE CARES!
ouch, that was harsh.
 
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