"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls dragging other girls away

green69

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It happened again tonight. I'm dancing with a girl...she is getting pretty into it I can tell, but then her friends facing her literally pull her away from me. I mean I could understand if the girl was trying to make it subtle that she didn't want to grind with me, but it was exactly the opposite. When I was dancing with her I tried to pull her away from her friends a little bit which helped...but I guess not far enough because they were still in range of us. Do I literally have to drag girls away from their friends' group next time or just keep doin what I'm doin and hope for the best? lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NickBe

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Some girls have signals they give their friends so that the friend will drag them away. However most of the time the friend is just jealous and she decided to **** block. Thats why you need a good wingman, a wingman is like a anti-**** blocker. He does anything to accomplish his mission, damn there have been time when I have stamped on a girls foot to stop her from **** blocking.
 

Manolo

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Ah, haven't we all been there before?
If the girls friends don't like you, it's over.
Keep this in mind for the next time you go after a girl who is with her friends.
 

speakeasy

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That's why Mystery suggests building a bit of rapport with the entire SET before moving in on the target. Some girls are just haters period.
 
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