"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls dragging other girls away

green69

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It happened again tonight. I'm dancing with a girl...she is getting pretty into it I can tell, but then her friends facing her literally pull her away from me. I mean I could understand if the girl was trying to make it subtle that she didn't want to grind with me, but it was exactly the opposite. When I was dancing with her I tried to pull her away from her friends a little bit which helped...but I guess not far enough because they were still in range of us. Do I literally have to drag girls away from their friends' group next time or just keep doin what I'm doin and hope for the best? lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NickBe

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Some girls have signals they give their friends so that the friend will drag them away. However most of the time the friend is just jealous and she decided to **** block. Thats why you need a good wingman, a wingman is like a anti-**** blocker. He does anything to accomplish his mission, damn there have been time when I have stamped on a girls foot to stop her from **** blocking.
 

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Ah, haven't we all been there before?
If the girls friends don't like you, it's over.
Keep this in mind for the next time you go after a girl who is with her friends.
 

speakeasy

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That's why Mystery suggests building a bit of rapport with the entire SET before moving in on the target. Some girls are just haters period.
 
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