"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girls don't like skinny/slim guys?

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LoveBOT

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ok so i know i can get many women who like to dance with me and kiss me etc....but i never get 1-night stands from clubs.

just wondering is it cause i'm skinny and girls don't like skinny guys do they?....i mean most people i speak to or mess around with always comment on me being skinny and how they "Like guys with more meat to em" exscuse the pun there.

just wondering if there's any skinny guys on don jaun who can say that they have alot of success even though there skinny?.

Thx peeps!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's all about attraction man. If you can pull of being skinny by counter acting it with being suave and confident then you're not going to have any problems at all. A lot of girls find skinny guys really attractive for some reason. You're blessed in the sense that you aren't fat because A LOT more girls go for the skinny guys then they would fat guys. Just make sure you aren't so skinny that it looks unhealthy.
 

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Nothing says all girls find slim or skinny guys unattractive, and some prefer guys this way, but on a wider level a good build and muscle increases sex appeal. Like height, it indicates strength and appeals to a woman's instincts.

But there's nothing to stop you adding some muscle. It takes time and effort, but the payoff is worth it.
 

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I'm 6'0" and 140 pounds. Women comment that I'm "so skinny" ALL THE TIME.

One of them **** tested with something like "you should be one of those starving children on TV." and she goes around telling people "he has a disease." Lol.

I really don't care, and I just return with C&F comments like if she's staring at me I'll say, "I know my muscles are attractive, but can you please stop staring at them?"

or "Sorry I'm late... my muscles didn't fit through the door."

I wouldn't say I'm fantasically successful, but I get better every day.

The important point is that the calibre of women I've been able to attract has been entirely a function of MY SKILL and not my MUSCLES.

I draw a lot of confidence from the fact that I've dated HB8s and HB9s. Can I get them every time? No, absolutely not, but I get better and better at it. I don't settle for less.

One HB9 who has a boyfriend is hitting on me ALL the time. Read: licking chocolate off her finger while looking into my eyes, putting head on my shoulder, etc.

Another I'm dating right now --see my active thread.

I'm really lucky in that I REALLY don't let my body affect my inner game anymore. Women try to **** test me on my skinnyness and I just laught at them.

I used to laugh because I was "training" myself to do so, but now I really DO find it funny. The laughter flows directly from my belief that my muscles don't matter.
 

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There are girls who like skinny guys. There are girls who like short guys. There are girls who like big guys. There are girls who like tall guys. There are girls who like hairy guys. There are girls who like stumpy guys. There are girls who like blonde guys. There are girls who like tan guys.

Need it be explained further?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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