"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girls don't like skinny/slim guys?

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LoveBOT

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ok so i know i can get many women who like to dance with me and kiss me etc....but i never get 1-night stands from clubs.

just wondering is it cause i'm skinny and girls don't like skinny guys do they?....i mean most people i speak to or mess around with always comment on me being skinny and how they "Like guys with more meat to em" exscuse the pun there.

just wondering if there's any skinny guys on don jaun who can say that they have alot of success even though there skinny?.

Thx peeps!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's all about attraction man. If you can pull of being skinny by counter acting it with being suave and confident then you're not going to have any problems at all. A lot of girls find skinny guys really attractive for some reason. You're blessed in the sense that you aren't fat because A LOT more girls go for the skinny guys then they would fat guys. Just make sure you aren't so skinny that it looks unhealthy.
 

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Nothing says all girls find slim or skinny guys unattractive, and some prefer guys this way, but on a wider level a good build and muscle increases sex appeal. Like height, it indicates strength and appeals to a woman's instincts.

But there's nothing to stop you adding some muscle. It takes time and effort, but the payoff is worth it.
 

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I'm 6'0" and 140 pounds. Women comment that I'm "so skinny" ALL THE TIME.

One of them **** tested with something like "you should be one of those starving children on TV." and she goes around telling people "he has a disease." Lol.

I really don't care, and I just return with C&F comments like if she's staring at me I'll say, "I know my muscles are attractive, but can you please stop staring at them?"

or "Sorry I'm late... my muscles didn't fit through the door."

I wouldn't say I'm fantasically successful, but I get better every day.

The important point is that the calibre of women I've been able to attract has been entirely a function of MY SKILL and not my MUSCLES.

I draw a lot of confidence from the fact that I've dated HB8s and HB9s. Can I get them every time? No, absolutely not, but I get better and better at it. I don't settle for less.

One HB9 who has a boyfriend is hitting on me ALL the time. Read: licking chocolate off her finger while looking into my eyes, putting head on my shoulder, etc.

Another I'm dating right now --see my active thread.

I'm really lucky in that I REALLY don't let my body affect my inner game anymore. Women try to **** test me on my skinnyness and I just laught at them.

I used to laugh because I was "training" myself to do so, but now I really DO find it funny. The laughter flows directly from my belief that my muscles don't matter.
 

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There are girls who like skinny guys. There are girls who like short guys. There are girls who like big guys. There are girls who like tall guys. There are girls who like hairy guys. There are girls who like stumpy guys. There are girls who like blonde guys. There are girls who like tan guys.

Need it be explained further?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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