I've never heard of this, but i was reading in the Small town sarging thread about all these girls approaching this one dude. i dont get it. i thought it was all the guy who does the approaching? why do some dudes get approached by girls but others dont? does it have to do with how agressiive the girl is?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girls doing the approaching?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It sorta relies on both. The perceived looks of a guy (it's not just raw good looks that determines it, otherwise i'd be getting laid by every girl I lay eyes on), and it does have a little to do with female being more forward.
But females usually don't flat out approach, rather, they come up with a very subtle opener....I've gotten "You look like someone I know" ALL THE TIME! You've probably been "approached" by girls and not even knew it, as they usually go with with that method.
But females usually don't flat out approach, rather, they come up with a very subtle opener....I've gotten "You look like someone I know" ALL THE TIME! You've probably been "approached" by girls and not even knew it, as they usually go with with that method.
I get it more now, because I walk tall and with confidence(confident in other areas too). Some of which I will attribute to lifting/cardio, the rest from putting myself out there in the field.
Girls around my age (20) and below tend to be the more aggressive ones approaching me I noticed, as Lil Wayne would say "shark food." Recently, an older mature chick, mind you, approached me w/a subtle opener (Have u had any cake yet?) and then asked personal questions, looking at me when I'm looking away, lookin' at my ass. She seems like the shy type, but it's a different kinda shy for woman around 27 like her!
Girls around my age (20) and below tend to be the more aggressive ones approaching me I noticed, as Lil Wayne would say "shark food." Recently, an older mature chick, mind you, approached me w/a subtle opener (Have u had any cake yet?) and then asked personal questions, looking at me when I'm looking away, lookin' at my ass. She seems like the shy type, but it's a different kinda shy for woman around 27 like her!