"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Girls doing the approaching?

G Rambo34

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 1, 2008
Messages
60
Reaction score
0
I've never heard of this, but i was reading in the Small town sarging thread about all these girls approaching this one dude. i dont get it. i thought it was all the guy who does the approaching? why do some dudes get approached by girls but others dont? does it have to do with how agressiive the girl is?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

LostAndConfused

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2007
Messages
1,137
Reaction score
11
It sorta relies on both. The perceived looks of a guy (it's not just raw good looks that determines it, otherwise i'd be getting laid by every girl I lay eyes on), and it does have a little to do with female being more forward.

But females usually don't flat out approach, rather, they come up with a very subtle opener....I've gotten "You look like someone I know" ALL THE TIME! You've probably been "approached" by girls and not even knew it, as they usually go with with that method.
 

BMX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2004
Messages
1,477
Reaction score
408
Location
Everett
I get it more now, because I walk tall and with confidence(confident in other areas too). Some of which I will attribute to lifting/cardio, the rest from putting myself out there in the field.

Girls around my age (20) and below tend to be the more aggressive ones approaching me I noticed, as Lil Wayne would say "shark food." Recently, an older mature chick, mind you, approached me w/a subtle opener (Have u had any cake yet?) and then asked personal questions, looking at me when I'm looking away, lookin' at my ass. She seems like the shy type, but it's a different kinda shy for woman around 27 like her!
 

BMX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2004
Messages
1,477
Reaction score
408
Location
Everett
HB: Have u had any cake yet?
Me: Nope, is it as good as the PIE?
 
Top