Girls disappearing when you don't make a move

[OC Speedball]

I have a question for you guys. I'm not sure if there is a clear answer to this question, but I'd like to hear what you guys think.

I've hung out/gone out with a few girls that I didn't like. All high interest level. A couple of them I thought I liked but then while on the date I thought to myself, "Actually, I'm going to pass on this girl. NEXT!!!" And then I stopped pursuing her afterwards.

With all these girls contact completely died out. These were girls that were texting me incessantly before we hung out...and then afterwards they never contacted me again. Now, I must mention that this has only happened with four girls, but it's interesting because they all did the same thing.

Now, I have two theories for this. 1) They thought I liked them. Then when I didn't kiss them they were mad and went home and cried. Or, 2) They thought I was a pu$$y for not kissing them. What do you guys think?

 

[Fly By Night]

Prolly the first lol. If you just stop showing interest mid-date then they know you made your choice and stuck by it.

 

[Robert28]

question. did you meet these girls online? if so then your 2 theories are both wrong.

 

[OC Speedball]

question. did you meet these girls online? if so then your 2 theories are both wrong.

No. I meet all girls either through cold approach or social circle.