"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls disappearing when you don't make a move

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I have a question for you guys. I'm not sure if there is a clear answer to this question, but I'd like to hear what you guys think.

I've hung out/gone out with a few girls that I didn't like. All high interest level. A couple of them I thought I liked but then while on the date I thought to myself, "Actually, I'm going to pass on this girl. NEXT!!!" And then I stopped pursuing her afterwards.

With all these girls contact completely died out. These were girls that were texting me incessantly before we hung out...and then afterwards they never contacted me again. Now, I must mention that this has only happened with four girls, but it's interesting because they all did the same thing.

Now, I have two theories for this. 1) They thought I liked them. Then when I didn't kiss them they were mad and went home and cried. Or, 2) They thought I was a pu$$y for not kissing them. What do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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question. did you meet these girls online? if so then your 2 theories are both wrong.
 
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Robert28 said:
question. did you meet these girls online? if so then your 2 theories are both wrong.
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No. I meet all girls either through cold approach or social circle.
 
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