It was prom night and there was this girl I was starting to get into(I have her number and talked with her a little bit before prom happened) Anyways we danced and talked for a bit and we kind of went are separate ways that night, then I see her with this other guy walking around holding hands with her(she's single.) I'm like whatever and continued to dance with other girls and hanged with the bros. Well after prom ended I we said are goodbyes and before we left I ended up talking again and she told me that she needed to talk to me and to text her, so I did and asked why she wanted to talk and she was like "the whole thing with the guy was unplanned" I was trying to uncover why she told me this but she kept giving simple responses like idk. So at the end I told her she was making no sense and "said we talked, bye". and she responded "Wow? K. Bye." I am kind of noobish when it comes to this stuff, so what the heck was going on and did I screw something up?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girls can be so confusing.
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